What would you do to move on? I'm no longer in the relationship, but I sometimes forget that, and obsess over my ex.. We don't talk as much ( or communicate properly). I did say I'd like to still be friends and we( me and my ex) both know I'm not over him. I have really deep trust-issue and low self-esteem problems as well. And well, exercising really didn't help( I'm still going to keep doing it though!). And going out with friends and hangin out a lot didn't help. What helped you guys get over this? He was my first and I know it's hard. We just ended on unfinished terms I'd call it. But I really do have mixed feelings for him. BUT! I want to get over it. What can I do? I've tried losing contact with him, but that doesn't really fix anything, and I've attempted to stay busy, reading, tv, working out, going out, STAYING OUT. But at the end of the day, I still find time to think of him. I've thought about pretending to move on and see other people, but that's not right. It's not nice to manipulate others, and I don't want to see him hurt either. I know there are others that express real genuine interest me.. but I just don't feel the same, and I do know they're nice people, but no.. I know I'm sorta obsessed over him. But... how do I get over it?! I truely do want to get over him.. but he really has not given me ANY FAULT to not like him at all. Besides the lack of communication and an addiction to games. Argh. I'm also rambling because this helps me... just get it out of my system. But I truely am asking for help too! Please no mean comments I don't think that'd help.