i just read both your posts together, ou wrote two different things. if the first is true, listen to jason here. if second, read my post. if both well then ou want to get back, he wants to stay close and situation resolved itself, call him for coffee and talk like two adults and you will agree to stay friends, and things will get better.
how do you know he still wants you close?
The second post is much more honest, the first post is just my "I want off this ride." Post.
I do love him, I do miss him
Like I said about things that he does that are so easy to read into.
Example:
Me: I have to go to this work party near your house, do you wanna go with me?
Him: No.
Me: Well do you at least want to do something together to make the 30 minute commute and bus ride worth it.
Him: No, I really don't feel like going anywhere tonight.
Me: Alright, so how's your night going?
Him: Good, I'll give you a ride home later if you want though.
Me: That would be awesome, thanks.
It's not that he offered to give me a ride that I thought was weird, it was that he flat out refused to leave the house than offers to drive 10 minutes to come to me, and then drive another 30 back to the town I live. Doesn stay, pretty much just says "bye" I hop out of his truck and he leaves.
It's been 4 months, almost 5 since we've broken up, and he said that i'm the only guy he's had sex with since before our relationship. He's a superficial 10, amazing body, amazing penis and can get laid if he wants to. If he's not lying that would be really easy to read into, like... he wants to keep me close but not too close where I'll hurt him again
Edit: He's an ass, he's snarky and he's snippy and sarcastic. Yes he's a bad person, but then by that logic so am I
good luck!
