How do you get people on here to respond to anything????

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Getting very frustrated with the apparent lack of communication skills with everyone on LPSG.

I leave messages on messages, posts and group conversations.

I check in daily and many of the people I reach out to were on line at least once, but didn't respond????
 

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Well, one look at your recent history shows you copy/paste the same message to people's profiles. It looks like a bot. I don't respond to bots so I would ignore it.

Also, it's invitations to do things without me even getting to know you. I'd also ignore it as it seems to be advertisements.

And finally, you aren't entitled to a response from people, especially you've never talked before on an online forum. It isn't quite the same as speaking to someone in real life and even in real life when someone walks up to me and hands me an advertisement to go somewhere or do something, if they ask me if I'm going right then and there I'd refuse and walk away. It's too pushy.

In short, you need to work on social communication skills yourself. Not trying to be mean or harsh, just real.
 

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Sorry you are having that problem. I try to always respond to message from people here. I've had many good conversations with people from this site from all over the world, and other states here in the USA.

Some are just quick notes to say hi. While others are continuing conversations with various members.

I am always polite and respectful with other members. Also I've messaged other members and never received a response I don't take it personally. We all have our own lives to live. No big deal.
 
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Pretty good profile....like your dressups...looks like you are a fun fella. :)

Must have been a bitch to cover yourself in blue...What were you there..Smurf?.....Just joking...Avatar :)
 
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