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How Do You Get Someone Else Laid?

Discussion in 'Ask a Gay Man' started by kr8zy, May 20, 2019.

  1. kr8zy

    kr8zy Cherished Member

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    I feel sorry for this guy. He is supposedly a virgin (in his 40's) claims he likes men. He is not the best looking guy, but certainly not the worst. He has 1 big issue though - he has a major speech impediment. Talking with him is like talking to someone who is totally drunk, even though he is actually completely sober.

    IT would be too awkward for me to have sex with him, but he is getting pretty desperate and I don't want him to try something too dangerous, either. I have thought of taking him to a bathhouse or Gay Resort, but not sure that is appropriate for some guys first time. Suggestions? Scruff didn't seem to work for him, all they wanted was his pics he says, though I am not sure he really knew how to get to the asking to hook up part.
     
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    Go with him to a sauna. Maybe avoid anal for the first time if he's nervous. Chances are he might not even have to say a word.
     
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    Hire someone lol

    Make sure you tell them everything about him

    There are some decent man whores out there who would have done something similar with another client and that way you and they know what to and what not to expect
     
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    Don’t feel sorry for him. Help him find a competent speech therapist. Lots of unattractive people get laid. It’s about confidence and self esteem, clearly he needs help in these areas, and I assume at the root of it all is his impediment.
     
  5. kr8zy

    kr8zy Cherished Member

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    It's physical/neurological, so not something therapy can fix.
     
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    thats what apps like grindr is for, i'm sure he doesn't show his speech impediment when typing?
     
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    Therapy isn’t always about fixing something. It’s a tool he should investigate as it addresses the mental/emotional aspects as well.
     
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