Maybe in this day and age the labels of home or hetro get ditched.I'm curious to know about gay guys that only prefer to suck "straight" men off. Where do you find them? How do you spark a convo with a straight guy and turn that into having his dick down your throat?
Not interested in str8 men! Who really is?
Well you can't speak with your mouth fullIf they say they are straight while they have their dick down my throat, who am I to tell them otherwise ?
As a great admirer of Frasier its Niles playing the straight man while Frasier acts like an old drag queen on heat - just a turn of phrase so please done get upset - and yet both into the seduction of the ladies, very much ladies men, so much for perceived stereotyping.As often as I practically can, I prefer to use the terms heterosexual, bisexual, and homosexual. These are actually technical terms that describe sexual orientation. "Straight" is an identity that only roughly has something to do with heterosexuality but is really more about a type of demeanor, conduct, and lifestyle. I don't see any legitimate use for it. It would appear to mostly serve the interests of those who are trying to cover up personal insecurities. It's based off of stereotypes of how "normal", "masculine" men are "supposed" to be. Some of the ideals attributed to the archetype of the "Straight Man" don't even come across to me as decent ideals (despite the fact that I hold to what I would call traditional values).
Their id is their business. However, encouraging their id when it is not true...
Know one knows what goes on behind closed doors, right? So a man who idenifies and is perceived by his friends as straight or hetero, whatever you want to call it could be bisexual in the privacy of his own home .Not at all. If someone wants to believe they are "straight" while having m2m relations, that's their business. The rest of the world should not buy into it.
+2ptsDoes "straight" actually mean something different from heterosexual?
The terms heterosexual and homosexual aren't really neutral or fixed descriptors of orientation. They were invented in the late c19th by the medical profession to pathologise sexuality. Heterosexuality was first defined as "morbid sexual passion for one of the opposite sex". Despite their neoclassical ring (an odd hybrid of Latin and Greek), the words have only been in common usage over the last 100 years. They are freighted with social meaning and subject to change.I prefer to use the terms heterosexual, bisexual, and homosexual. These are actually technical terms that describe sexual orientation.
The terms heterosexual and homosexual aren't really neutral or fixed descriptors of orientation. They were invented in the late c19th by the medical profession to pathologise sexuality. Heterosexuality was first defined as "morbid sexual passion for one of the opposite sex". Despite their neoclassical ring (an odd hybrid of Latin and Greek), the words have only been in common usage over the last 100 years. They are freighted with social meaning and subject to change.
Many think 'homosexual' has too much clinical baggage to be neutral (carrying lingering negative associations with mental illness and the stigma of criminality). It's the word naturally favoured by social and religious conservatives, as in "homosexual lifestyle". It may not be derogatory but it is considered a loaded term. https://www.nytimes.com/2014/03/23/fashion/gays-lesbians-the-term-homosexual.htmlYes, I'm aware of the history of the terms. My impression of their current usage, however, is that they have become fairly neutral terms that generally merely describe which sex(es) one finds oneself sexually drawn to. Being an individual who has interactions with circles of religious conservatives, traditionalists, and other variants of social rightism, I'm also aware that some of them persist in using homosexual in a pathologizing sense (though more often they prefer a moralizing and antagonistic approach than a pitying one). But those folks, at least in my world, have represented the fringe, so the former neutralized usage has been dominant.