How do you hunt studs?

[Lordpendragon]

I recently had a girl just come straight up to me outside a club and grab a hold - her surprise was an ego boost - I would probably have gone with her but was with someone else.

I think you can tell a lot about what a guy is like in bed from his manner - quietly confident and not intimidated by outgoing women which I imagine you are. Even if he doesn't have a big cock, he will be likely good.

Not so long ago I had an experience with a woman where the whole flirtation was with eye contact - I just knew that she was asking me if I was up to the job for her - my eyes siad I was.

 

[stud_hunter]

I recently had a girl just come straight up to me outside a club and grab a hold - her surprise was an ego boost - I would probably have gone with her but was with someone else.

I think you can tell a lot about what a guy is like in bed from his manner - quietly confident and not intimidated by outgoing women which I imagine you are. Even if he doesn't have a big cock, he will be likely good.

Indeed :tongue: . I agree with you that you can tell a lot about a guy sexually from his general attitude. Quietly confident is the perfect way to put it, too.
Yeah, I can be very outgoing when I'm in the mindset and when the guy seems worth it. And then there are those times I like to play a little by giving a guy some signals and letting him come to me :biggrin1: .

 

[ClaireTalon]

I recently had a girl just come straight up to me outside a club and grab a hold - her surprise was an ego boost - I would probably have gone with her but was with someone else.

That is the "stud grip" I told about. Still I prefer to use it as the last tool in my box, since it is very forward and in the case of some men sets a point of no return. The problem is that using it too early can get you in a limited-options situation if it doesn't return the results you want. Then you have a guy who thinks your gates are open like a barn door, while you have mentally just bye-bye'd the sex with him. On the other hand, if you have the other signs that you're up to have sex with someone hung, I consider it as one of the best steps to show my intentions. Deeds, instead of words.

I think you can tell a lot about what a guy is like in bed from his manner - quietly confident and not intimidated by outgoing women which I imagine you are. Even if he doesn't have a big cock, he will be likely good.

I can confirm this, partly at least. It's the signs I look out for during the usual banter, when I tie in some sexual undertones. I wouldn't say there's a general way every guy should behave like, but I can read very well in his replies, gestures and manners if he's my type in bed. Still, there's a problem: There are hung guys who, for some reason, completely lock up when you start dropping hints. Maybe it's bad experience with reactions to their size, but I found this funny. Also, there's still the possibility that he is hung, but repressed in some other way.

Not so long ago I had an experience with a woman where the whole flirtation was with eye contact - I just knew that she was asking me if I was up to the job for her - my eyes siad I was.

Was that me? Eye contact can say a million things, more than words, mostly. I like to use a lot of eye contact during flirts, maybe one of the best ways to have an innuendo conversation.

 

[Ethyl]

Not so long ago I had an experience with a woman where the whole flirtation was with eye contact - I just knew that she was asking me if I was up to the job for her - my eyes siad I was.

That's the ultimate rush. The eye contact worth a thousand words. It doesn't happen very often to me, but when it does . . . whew!

 

[gg42]

Easy - give a blow job to every guy you meet. Take names and numbers from the guys that are big. Simple. Sheeeesh - women - they make everything so complicated!:smile:

 

[stud_hunter]

That's the ultimate rush. The eye contact worth a thousand words. It doesn't happen very often to me, but when it does . . . whew!

Ohhh god. Once in awhile when I get that really intense eye contact with a guy, like we just had mental sex or something. I know that of which you speak :biggrin1:

 

[D_Cliebert_Chodechoker]

Whew bt your avatar studhuntr and this thread about women talking about how they like big dick i need a cold shower:biggrin1:

 

[rhino_horn]

u cud try putting ur signature on the visible areas(breasts/ass) of all ur clothing.

"prey comes willingly to the spider who waits in his web."

*nice legs.

 

[chicagosam]

Interests: sex, swimming, sex, bowling, sex, working out, sex...

This works for me!:biggrin1:

 

[sexycobra]

That is the "stud grip" I told about. Still I prefer to use it as the last tool in my box, since it is very forward and in the case of some men sets a point of no return. The problem is that using it too early can get you in a limited-options situation if it doesn't return the results you want. Then you have a guy who thinks your gates are open like a barn door, while you have mentally just bye-bye'd the sex with him. On the other hand, if you have the other signs that you're up to have sex with someone hung, I consider it as one of the best steps to show my intentions. Deeds, instead of words.

Like I said somewhere else, I don't like this "stud grip" thing at all if it's coming from someone I have never met. It has happened to me once, and while it's nice to think that women think you could be a catch and/or think you could be hung and want to find out, I find it very invasive to be touched like that by somebody I don't know.

I can confirm this, partly at least. It's the signs I look out for during the usual banter, when I tie in some sexual undertones. I wouldn't say there's a general way every guy should behave like, but I can read very well in his replies, gestures and manners if he's my type in bed. Still, there's a problem: There are hung guys who, for some reason, completely lock up when you start dropping hints. Maybe it's bad experience with reactions to their size, but I found this funny. Also, there's still the possibility that he is hung, but repressed in some other way.

Hung guys can be introverted and even somewhat shy, you know (example:me:smile: . Maybe I'm repressed in some way...). For better or for worse, the fact that someone has a large penis does not automatically make him ultra-confident. Besides, a guy's personality is more or less already shaped by the time he finds out he has a big penis and realizes what comes with it (in my case, I did not realize it until my twenties, so my personality is probably not going to change suddenly in adulthood due to finding that I'm well-endowed).

 

[stud_hunter]

Like I said somewhere else, I don't like this "stud grip" thing at all if it's coming from someone I have never met.

A woman in L.A. was convicted of sexual assault for employing the "stud grip" on a guy in a club. I wouldn't want a guy I don't know grabbing my tits, so I don't grab his cock. If I wanted to be that forward, I'd just look him straight in the eye and ask him what he's packing.

 

[pichulon]

I like teasing, but my first thing in a girl is to be feminine, and, classy. Boorish or overaggresive women kill that allure that a sexy and feminine girl has.
Brassy men and women end up last. As a guy, in the past, I used to be pushy. My cock size feeded my ego, but not my brains. Many girls failed to know me, because I acted overly aggresive.
A woman will get me in her web using charm, enticing me, but the "power grip" will probably end up with the same results a "pussy feel" would.
I would like it, sure, specially under a few scotches , but, long run, I am not so sure.

 

[sexycobra]

A woman in L.A. was convicted of sexual assault for employing the "stud grip" on a guy in a club. I wouldn't want a guy I don't know grabbing my tits, so I don't grab his cock. If I wanted to be that forward, I'd just look him straight in the eye and ask him what he's packing.

That's nice to know - I didn't know this was considered to be a sexual assault. Also, I'm glad to see that you use more "civilized" methods, stud_hunter. You and I might get along...
I have no problem if a woman asks me directly, although, as some people have said on this thread, I would probably not consider her as long-term relationship material after that, even if it turned out the sex was good...

 

[stud_hunter]

That's nice to know - I didn't know this was considered to be a sexual assault. Also, I'm glad to see that you use more "civilized" methods, stud_hunter. You and I might get along...

I'm sure that instance was unusual. Most guys probably wouldn't make it a legal issue. But why shouldn't they? Since when is it OK to grab the sex organs of a stranger? I've never understood that.
Another thing I should mention is I don't think most women would think of pulling a "stud grip" on a guy. Certainly not while sober.

 

[stud_hunter]

That's nice to know - I didn't know this was considered to be a sexual assault.

If you grab a woman's breasts or crotch without permission it's sexual assault, so I'd imagine the same standard applies (or should apply) the other way.

 

[sexycobra]

That's nice to know - I didn't know this was considered to be a sexual assault.

If you grab a woman's breasts or crotch without permission it's sexual assault, so I'd imagine the same standard applies (or should apply) the other way.

Makes sense.

 

[teasedsilly]

If you grab a woman's breasts or crotch without permission it's sexual assault, so I'd imagine the same standard applies (or should apply) the other way.

Yah, although I can almost understand why a woman would think guys would be more tolerant, since this kind of assertive female sexuality is a thing out of male fantasy. I probably would be offended as well in that situation, but at the same time I have to admit it stirs the imagination. :redface:

 

[ClaireTalon]

A woman in L.A. was convicted of sexual assault for employing the "stud grip" on a guy in a club. I wouldn't want a guy I don't know grabbing my tits, so I don't grab his cock. If I wanted to be that forward, I'd just look him straight in the eye and ask him what he's packing.

One more reason to save that as the final move, not to be used before a level of 90% certainity, when you can be sure to exploit the breakthrough in his lines

I respect your views, Sexycobra and Pinchulon, but I must say a lot of hung guys or good-in-bed guys found it very sexy to be with a woman who is aggressive too. But if I judge you both right, I guess I wouldn't find you at the typical stud hunting areas, right?

Maybe the best way to pick hung guys is still relying on your eventual sixth sense for it. I have to admit, I trust on it to find the guys, and use the other things mainly to back myself up about where my instinct has taken me. A big antenna will give big vibes ;-)

 

[Shelby]

With all due respect to the fine ladies who post here (I really don't mean to offend anyone), I still think some women's (especially those who have had children) need/desire for large cocks stems from a fear that their pussy is too loose.

Women in general are notoriously self conscious about their bodies.

 

[pichulon]

I respect your views, Sexycobra and Pinchulon, but I must say a lot of hung guys or good-in-bed guys found it very sexy to be with a woman who is aggressive too. But if I judge you both right, I guess I wouldn't find you at the typical stud hunting areas, right?

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Claire. I think it is a personal thing, the way a particular man, or woman, enjoys a person of the opposite sex to approach him / her .
There is no right way nor bad way. It is a game of trying, and, sometimes, we win the other person, sometimes we touch their alarm knob.
There is no particular way in which large guys behave , nor small guys. I have a friend, he is about 5.5 to 6. Word of mouth goes around, and some of my friends know I am endowed, so conversation comes aout about size, and off course, all my friends swear I get girls only because of my dick. Wishfull thinking I guess......another topic.....
but what I wanted to say is, this friend of mine is the cockiest , most conceited person you can ever meet. Probably many women thought his "confidence" was due to having a big cock. More than one must had gotten surprised.
Like you said in your post, I hope you only do that under the premisse of being at least 90% sure you will not get rebuffed.
I am not trying to put you down, honest advise from a man w a large dick, do not assume all large guys will look for power grips.
About your comment ...the hunting grounds , that was interesting, would you please elaborate???