ClaireTalon said:
No offense taken, I see what point you're making. It's natural, some guys come with more confidence, some with less, some with a big cock, some with a smaller, some with average. Still there is the factor that I have my problems with flirting shy guys, I can't say I like it. Not all the time, at least, sometimes it can be quite a nice play too to lure them out behind their defenses and into my bed. But for the most part, my likes belong to men with confidence. Well, and when it comes to the big dick thing, I really rely on my instincts for the most of finding them.
I understand completely . It is your particular way of doing things.
In my case, I would say I am versatile when it comes to women. I like the assertive aggresive ones , I also like the shy ones, ea one has it's own allure. Some very hot moments can only be found in each one of these women. Perhaps I am lucky in my view, I enjoy a vast array of women.
To your comment on shyness, I can draw inference from what you say, that in your view, a man that does not find enticing a stud grip, is shy, while another man that likes it is confident. I am a confident man, believe me, not the biggest egomaniac cock of the block kind of guy, but I am very confident indeed. When it comes to the stud grip, it , personally, I do not find it sexy, enticing, interesting, inviting, I find it a form of inquiry, a qualification move, a provision, a test. In a place where I want to have fun, get into flirting and posibly taking a girl or get laid and taken away by her, these "qualified inspection" seems to change things.
I would not feel intimidated, nor I am shy, I would feel disinterested , or, if the woman if really a knock out, I will probably proceed ( no man can refuse that ) but under different parameters , I would tend to think, "if she does this to me, she is doing the same stuff to others'.....not the best prospect..."
Just wanted to illustrate my point, a confident man, composed and sure about himself, can find the stud grip a little too far for his taste.
A shy guy, on the contrary, would really love that move, he would be thanking God for his luck, a girl that walks up to him and grabbs him.
Would I be correct in implying a girl is shy, because she moved away when I put my hand between her lower back and butt????
... some girls will love it, some others will see it as being too aggresive too soon.
About ever meeting, I do not care about competition, if we ever meet, what others see as competition, I see as healthy enviroment. That allows me the chance to get to know the girl I really want to know, nothing is enticing when it is easy.
I think you are in N Cal...I go ther sometimes, Shasta, Eureka, Humbolt....who knows.....
but, I guess you psicoanalized me LOL...so my defenses will not work against you.....if you see me, you have the rights to inspect, and, I would like it, ....I just grew while writting this last part....
.... perhaps you are converting me already.......LOL
