For the first time I'm going to ask the wise, twisted souls of LPSG for their advice. I'm in a relationship with an awesome guy. We've been together 5 years. Yes, I'm happy. Yes, the sex is great. We know each other inside and out. He's my partner in adventure. We share everything. After a string of bad relationships, I was ready to just live out my days as a single slut and he popped up and the rest is history. So along comes a new business partner. He's cute. Magnetic. The phermones are flowing. We have a lot in common. He's sexy and mysterious. To blow off steam we make music together and it sounds great. Anyway, I'm not going to do anything about it. In my 5 years with my current partner, I've had one crush like this before. I just rode it out, fortunately I got another job and that was that. The situation is different this time. I run the show and this guy is now my business partner. I chose him after looking for 6 months. Businesswise he's great and my protege'. His enthusiasm is contageous and he's one of the best up-and-coming entrepenuers I've ever met. I'm lucky to have found him. The whole story behind that was rather serendipidous but shall I digress...the work situation isn't going to go away because I'm not going to be so stupid as to throw away a business partnership because of something that's never going to happen. I've tried the whole "picture him 15 years older and 40 pounds heavier" thing and it hasn't helped. People keep asking me if my partner is jealous. My partner has also voiced jealousy but this is nothing new. I've assured him that he has nothing to worry about. I've not fessed up about my crush but I feel that's pointless. I don't want to hurt my partner. If I felt it would do any good, I'd fess up but what's the point? I'm only human and I'm a man so of course if someone is in close quarters with me and as attractive as I've said...anyway, I'm going to avoid situations where my cock may end up in his ass. It's really more than that, it's beyond sexual and that's the worst kind of crush. How do you get rid of a crush???