Roark1976
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I myself as a straight gay, break every gayradar ability. I like fashion, am emotional, like to make eye contact and am funny. So those qualities are things that not many but rarely some straight guys have. So check those off your gaydar list.
Boy, how lucky you are! I really hope you meet him the second time though...
Thanks! I'm still drooling, fantasizing, and dreaming of the possibilities, but I should mention I've been through this before, to find out the guy's interest is non-sexual
Which is why my best friends are all straight, and not coincidentally good-looking and hot
You cant never know.Coz I had a big big trouble about this in the past.
Lopo, I think Dong here has given you one of the best well-reasoned and serious answers. You should also take into account cultural differences, as you say in your country it's taboo to outwardly express homosexual interest. Even if a guy has those tendencies, he may be conflicted, or in a situation where he feels he needs to cover it up. Even if a guy is comfortable with his orientation, you might get entirely different signals depending on whether or not he is attracted to you...with me the bottom line is you can't tell 100% for certain and know for sure in your mind that you're right until you're given that "sign". In my experiences over the past three years it seems safe to say that you can "feel" it coming from the other person. There are different types of gay men, for example, feminine and masculine, which make it hard to distinguish at times. The last time I thought I "felt" something coming from a guy, I was right. It's the look on his face and the movement of and the direct or indirect expression of his eyes.
The particular guy I'm speaking of I noticed immediately. He caught my attention right away and I felt he saw the look in my eyes. I felt I saw it in him as well. The next time I saw him, his face looked sort of like "omg, there he is" or something. When I signed his form that day, I looked up at him to give him the paper, he nervously looked around for a second, then back at me and gave me the quickest and sexiest wink I've ever seen.
To me it's always in the facial expression and in the eyes. I may be wrong but I believe that's pretty much accurate.
As a straight guy I have to say there is no such thing as gaydar (it is as valid a statement as some of the pontifications above) but I am both bemused and amused when gay men who work in public: sales assistants, health "professionals" and other assorted work when a gay man "assumes" I am straight and deliberately goes out of his way to act like an arsehole. If the cap fits. This doesn't apply to all homosexual but saddly there is some secret league that a minority belong to who just try to make everyone awkward. I am not making assumptions I am reporting on experiences.
Ooooh yeah, especially like the one you just quoted.Wow thats weird If I think a hot guy is straight I try even harder to be nice! cause straight guys are soooo hot!
do what I do
Grab your crotch in a subtle way at least 4 times while talking to him
if he looks 2 out of the 4 times hes gay
that sounds rediculous but so telling
I can only talk for myself and say I don't have gaydar. If it weren't for the internet I wouldn't get laid at all!
I had a guy at work do this in front of me constantly...
Finally I stepped back and said, dude, why do you keep grabbin your crotch - you got Crickets or something??
But then it gave me an excuse to check it out too