How do you know if you are being too rough?

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  1. Charlie14

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    How can a guy tell if they are being too rough when having sex or not rough enough?

    Also.. what are some signs you gals might give when you are really horny and want a good rodgering? versus not really in the mood but want to please your lover?
     
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    my experience... the ladies will tell you exactly how they like it. I personally do not like rough sex. I had one memorable one who liked to ride on top, and she would bend your cock all over the place, it was great, until she would start slapping me in the head and face with her open hand. sometimes quite hard. I told her about it a couple times, and then slapped her after she slapped me. she didn't like that, and that was how the fight started.......
     
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    an ambulance is parked on your grass and a man in uniform is reading you your rights......
     
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    That's funny. You should've slapped her tits when she slapped your face. Maybe she would've liked that.
     
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    Usually they'll say stop but I think that's just when they're sore.

    Once I went all out on a girl, thought I was gonna break my cock (or break her) and she went "Ow, you fuckin bastard!" she liked it but even I know that was some super hard fucking.

    Normally I don't do anything so close to exercise. Slow shallow strokes mixed with fast and deep ones, sometimes I like to just push it all the way in and hold it there.
     
  6. Charlie14

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    See.. from my experience, in the girl's mind you are just supposed to "know" all this stuff.. if you have to ask or if they have to tell you, you failed..
     
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    just bang away as hard as you can theres no such thing as being to ruff women love it the harder and faster the better thought all blokes new this
     
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    Just try it and see what happens, you might be surprised. Listen to her responses and go by her moans or screams. If she's in heaven then keep up the pace or increase some. Start sensual and build up to intensity for a harder finish.
     
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    When she says stop and means it. You know the difference.
     
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    she'll tell you. :rolleyes:
     
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    lol, thats the right to remain silent, remember that one
     
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    most of em..... :biggrin1:
     
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    Most women will tell you if you're too ruff, or if they want it harder and ruffer. It's all about communication.
    -Ranger
     
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    Good grief, why are you asking us?! Shouldn't you be asking your victims?! :biggrin:
     
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    Like I said.. I was always under the impression if you have to ask you ruin it.. it's like asking a girl how she likes to be kissed before you kiss her.. the guy is just supposed to know or you fail the test... I see it the same way with sex..
     
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    Umm I'll go with her!Ask your victim not us!
     
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    Isn't all sex negotiated? What...do you just hop in bed and hope for the best?

    No wonder women complain about all the lousy lays they suffer.
     
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    if she is quite shy and doesn't want you to tell you to stop because she worries about you being happy by going deep(there is chance of this happening :p) then you should always look out for facial expressions that mean discomfort and slow down a little(the speed and the depth of penetration),or add some more lube and take it from the begining!:p
    it all works out in the end nicely! :D
     
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    I would advise that you do your best to ensure that your partner is completely aroused.

    I would say that when people are very aroused, it is obvious from their body language and actions what they want.

    Of course, if she screams "Fuck me harder you big dicked Bastard", you have your answer as much as finding that one of your testicles is being removed.
     
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    My guy and I had a code phrase (something that I wouldn't normally yell out during sex!) that I would say when I didn't want something in particular, or sex in general (very rare!).

    Otherwise, yes, yes, yes!
     
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