If you absolutely NEED a label to put on yourself, then the safe measurement to base it on would be if you get the same feeling looking at guys as women. If it seems like more of a "fetish" thing or a nice novelty during already great porn, you are probably not bi, you just project yourself into the role of the guy on screen. But if a great dick turns you on as much as great tits then you are definitely bi. If that's good news for you or not, that's up to you to decide.
Damn, you all have been so helpful.
I guess I have been fixated on "right and wrong," black and white all of my life, so I desperately crave that here as well.
It sounds like I need to find peace with the fact that I may never know where I completely fit in label wise, and maybe that's okay.
I guess I have been fixated on "right and wrong," black and white all of my life, so I desperately crave that here as well.
It sounds like I need to find peace with the fact that I may never know where I completely fit in label wise, and maybe that's okay.
I consider myself bisexual even though I don't find mind attractive. I just love sucking cock and getting fucked by big cocks. Actually any cocks but big ones excite me more. I don't like to kiss men or fuck them or get sucked. With women, I love to do everything. I just love sex though. With women, she can be a bigger girl and not beautiful but if shes sweet and nice, then I'm attracted to her. With men I don't feel emotionally attracted only physical attraction. Kinda strange but I love dick and pussy!
Fellow bi person here 
Personally, and I appreciate that I overthink things, I try not to think of it in terms of "not seeing gender" or any variations that get used in conversations about being bi/pan/poly/etc. I think that gender can be a really important part of how a person describes/defines who they are, but when it comes down to whether or not I find a person attractive I don't find that their gender acts as a deciding factor.
It can inform the way(s) that I do or don't find them attractive, but I have never ruled anyone out on the grounds that their gender isn't the right one for me.
Personally, and I appreciate that I overthink things, I try not to think of it in terms of "not seeing gender" or any variations that get used in conversations about being bi/pan/poly/etc. I think that gender can be a really important part of how a person describes/defines who they are, but when it comes down to whether or not I find a person attractive I don't find that their gender acts as a deciding factor.
It can inform the way(s) that I do or don't find them attractive, but I have never ruled anyone out on the grounds that their gender isn't the right one for me.
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I've tried women before and I can say, I know for sure I love guys!
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damn dude,nice cock and body!
Not really into all the labels, but if pressed, I consider myself bisexual. I enjoy sex with men and women (including trans-sexual women). Life is short. Sex is good. Go for it. Peace.
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To me, its if you're equally attracted to both sexes. I think a lot of times, ppl (esp men) label it "bisexual", when in reality its a big-cock fetish. I have no attraction to a man, other than his dick, and only if its big.
With the proliferation of porn online, and online hookup sites, webcams etc...guys are exposed to a lot more large penises than ever before, so its just inevitable that curiosity will arise, if you're hypersexual like most of us.
With the proliferation of porn online, and online hookup sites, webcams etc...guys are exposed to a lot more large penises than ever before, so its just inevitable that curiosity will arise, if you're hypersexual like most of us.
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It doesn't mean you have to have had sex with both or that will you do so in the future. It doesn't mean you're sexually attracted to every man and woman. You can be as picky as you want.
If you are at all sexually attracted to your own sex and the opposite sex, you are bi.
If you are at all sexually attracted to your own sex and the opposite sex, you are bi.
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That is beautifully said and I could not agree with you more. As I mature and become more accepting of my bisexual side, I cannot help but notice this whether I am at work, at the gym or at any social gathering. I am sexually attracted to some men and some women but not to others and that is all right. It does not mean they are not attractive-- they are just not attractive to me.
I am a guy that loves licking pussy, sucking pussy and then fucking pussy. I also enjoy having my cock suck by talented cock suckers.
To date men have it with me as being the best cock sucker. Maybe it's because they have a cock and know what feels good.
My sexual identity and tastes have evolved over time. I didn't explore with other men until my mid twenties, and started when I met a transexual woman (though I actually recall looking at a Playgirl magazine my mother had stashed). I've always been seriously attracted to women, to their femininity. But was also into cock, just not so much the body attached to it, which is where special ladies came in. Over time I came to appreciate the body as well, than on to the mind, etc. I evolved from finding the sight of men kissing objectionable, to now finding it enjoyable (and now having a preference for passionate play with a hung top, makes it all so much better!).
I think we all have the clues inside, it's just a matter of having our eyes open, as well as the willingness to be honest. It came to a point where I was suddenly comfortable with that, told a few good friends (and got the "cool, I have a another gay friend"), and moved on
I think we all have the clues inside, it's just a matter of having our eyes open, as well as the willingness to be honest. It came to a point where I was suddenly comfortable with that, told a few good friends (and got the "cool, I have a another gay friend"), and moved on
before my first time it was just curiosity. first time I sucked a dick it was satisfying my curiosity. the second time I seeked out a cock to suck and got on my knees and finishes him off (enjoying it the whole time) I knew I was bi. now thinking about cock gets me harder faster than thinking about pussy.
For me, sexuality is fluid - it's all about the connection regardless of gender. As for big cocks, bonding with others is inherent to me as it seems that we should appreciate what we've been blessed with and share the pleasure.
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