I think the labels cause a lot of confusion. Many people like to think there's three buckets: Gay, Straight, Bi. Not actually the case. It's a spectrum, and people fall anywhere along the spectrum, though our society makes it hard to be open about that.
I think labels should just vanish now. They are so inaccurate and so old fashioned!
The only reason sexuality labels exist, is because people needed a way to create division in society. It was a way for people to single out those who liked their own gender sexually because they didn't understand it and religion, which has said it's wrong for no factual reasons. The other reason is because people seem to think that human beings were only born to have babies. That's not true at all! Some women can't have children. Some animals have been known to have homosexual relationships. Some men aren't paternal and some women aren't maternal. Not all people were born the same way as some people over history have been made to think. There are no straight lines in nature, so why did human beings think that there were going to be straight human beings?
Also, this site has made me realise that there are a lot more gay people than I thought! A lot of men on here say they are straight and yet when they comment on a dick picture, they turn around and say "I wanna suck that dick." You're saying you're straight and yet you're offering services like that to another man? You're not straight! This has also made me realise that there a lot of people in denial about their sexual preferences or that there is a lot of people still closeted. In this day and age, it's unbelievable and that should not be happening!
Your sexual preferences are determined by a lot of things because human beings are complicated creatures. Human beings thinking they can simplify human behaviour, was a bit delusional.
The only reason sexuality labels exist, is because people needed a way to create division in society. It was a way for people to single out those who liked their own gender sexually because they didn't understand it and religion, which has said it's wrong for no factual reasons. The other reason is because people seem to think that human beings were only born to have babies. That's not true at all! Some women can't have children. Some animals have been known to have homosexual relationships. Some men aren't paternal and some women aren't maternal. Not all people were born the same way as some people over history have been made to think. There are no straight lines in nature, so why did human beings think that there were going to be straight human beings?
Also, this site has made me realise that there are a lot more gay people than I thought! A lot of men on here say they are straight and yet when they comment on a dick picture, they turn around and say "I wanna suck that dick." You're saying you're straight and yet you're offering services like that to another man? You're not straight! This has also made me realise that there a lot of people in denial about their sexual preferences or that there is a lot of people still closeted. In this day and age, it's unbelievable and that should not be happening!
Your sexual preferences are determined by a lot of things because human beings are complicated creatures. Human beings thinking they can simplify human behaviour, was a bit delusional.
When I realized that I was appreciating handsome dicks and buff male bodies about as much as nice tits and pretty pussies. The next step was to acknowledge that I wanted to have an adult sexual encounter with another male. The next step was to realize how much I enjoyed it,
When you watch a video of a woman sucking on a monster cock, and you envy the girl more than the guy
When you can't talk, cuz you have a cock in your mouth
first of all i think you'll need to define the word i suppose..
for example: are u bisex if u can fall in love with both sexes. or is just liking sex with both sides enough? for me its the first.. that doesn't make me bisex i suppose but hell yeah having fun with both. for me its more hedonism i think. anyway don't think to much about it just love yourself.
for example: are u bisex if u can fall in love with both sexes. or is just liking sex with both sides enough? for me its the first.. that doesn't make me bisex i suppose but hell yeah having fun with both. for me its more hedonism i think. anyway don't think to much about it just love yourself.
I have never heard of anyone trying it and saying that they absolutely hated it. They might be conflicted afterwards because of social norms, but remove the social norms and I've only heard guys say that it was a good experience.
I see so many people going about labels and all and even if that is all true, maybe that's not what you want to hear. Too bad I can't tell you, the only one that can say that is yourself. So, I could give a few "steps"/tips:
The first is to accept yourself as you are. Meaning, you should come to understand and accept that whatever your sexuality is, it doesn't define you, it's just a part of you and it won't change anything. It has something to do with labels and all, but I see it as an exercise to deal with internalized homo-/bifobia (been there, bro, it REALLY clouds your judgement if you take a biased look towards yourself).
Second (and last) thing, go out there and do something romantic/sexual with a guy. Make out, get/give a BJ, you choose what suits you! Despite what some people say, your orientation should be defined by what you FEEL, not what you do. Otherwise we would be born assexual, not virgins! LOL And by that I mean that even if you are straight, you shouldn't be ashamed of having done something with a guy. You were curious, tried and that's that. Plus, I can guarantee that the peace of mind that comes with it is worthwhile!
Additional tips: know that bisexuality comes "in all shapes and sizes", meaning you can feel more attracted to one gender much more often than to the other. It can also be fluid, meaning that you may wake up one day not really interested in women and the next, you may be dying to be with one LOL
The last one is that old habits die hard, meaning that if you have been overanalysing stuff for too long, even after your experience with a man, you might catch yourself doubting your sexuality again. Just hold a memory of a girl who you liked/turned you on and another of a man (either if you liked him or if you did stuff and it didn't do anything to you) as "proof" of your sexuality. Use those to make yourself overanalyse things. It should go away. Anyways, I know this reply if fucking long, but if you wanna talk about it, just PM me, I'll be glad to help. Good luck
The first is to accept yourself as you are. Meaning, you should come to understand and accept that whatever your sexuality is, it doesn't define you, it's just a part of you and it won't change anything. It has something to do with labels and all, but I see it as an exercise to deal with internalized homo-/bifobia (been there, bro, it REALLY clouds your judgement if you take a biased look towards yourself).
Second (and last) thing, go out there and do something romantic/sexual with a guy. Make out, get/give a BJ, you choose what suits you! Despite what some people say, your orientation should be defined by what you FEEL, not what you do. Otherwise we would be born assexual, not virgins! LOL And by that I mean that even if you are straight, you shouldn't be ashamed of having done something with a guy. You were curious, tried and that's that. Plus, I can guarantee that the peace of mind that comes with it is worthwhile!
Additional tips: know that bisexuality comes "in all shapes and sizes", meaning you can feel more attracted to one gender much more often than to the other. It can also be fluid, meaning that you may wake up one day not really interested in women and the next, you may be dying to be with one LOL
The last one is that old habits die hard, meaning that if you have been overanalysing stuff for too long, even after your experience with a man, you might catch yourself doubting your sexuality again. Just hold a memory of a girl who you liked/turned you on and another of a man (either if you liked him or if you did stuff and it didn't do anything to you) as "proof" of your sexuality. Use those to make yourself overanalyse things. It should go away. Anyways, I know this reply if fucking long, but if you wanna talk about it, just PM me, I'll be glad to help. Good luck
very true...at least for me.......and when I finally tried it, I loved it......
I agree. The vast majority of guys I know said they liked MM sex and wanted more. Very few didn't enjoy the experience.....
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I think this is exactly right. I honestly feel that being 100% gay or 100% straight is the exception. Most people fall along the spectrum in the middle. The definition most people use is "would you ever...", versus "do you enjoy..."
Having sex with both sexes is something we all grew up with - be honest, guys fooled around with guys when we were all just learning (how did you learn to masturbate? Who taught you?), and girls explored with girls.
My best male buddy and I are often naked in the jacuzzi together and a lot of mutual touching goes on. He admits to getting aroused upon occasion, but we've never crossed the line to actual intimate contact. (That's his cock on my blog header. Sporting a semi.) Whether my "100% straight" buddy wants to admit it or not, he's Bi. Maybe only 5% or so, but he was aroused by another guy. And I love that he's relaxed enough with me to admit it.
I enjoy sex, oral and manual, with guys (more past tense than present), but it also indicates a same-sex physical attraction which most people automatically assumes puts them in the Gay category. "Had sex with a guy five years ago, so I'm gay."
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Some days I feel a very strong desire for women, other days for men. I enjoy visually both a beautiful male and a beautiful girl. Some days I consume exclusively straight porn, other days gay porn and rarely I enjoy both. I get sexually aroused around sexy people regardless of their gender. I've been like that since I can remember, so that's how I know.
I look at pussy , my dick gets hard and I want to play in it. I look at dick and I want to jack/frot with it.
Ok, so you have never had anal sex with a woman or a man. Lots of men have anal sex with women and lots of them don't. I do not think those who do not fuck female ass are questioning their straight sexuality.
Likewise, there are a lot of gay men who are not into anal sex and they don't question their gay sexuality. They know they don't want sex with women.
Getting back to you. You like some sexual activities with women. You like some sexual activities with men. What does that mean to you?
Likewise, there are a lot of gay men who are not into anal sex and they don't question their gay sexuality. They know they don't want sex with women.
Getting back to you. You like some sexual activities with women. You like some sexual activities with men. What does that mean to you?
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I'd say if you have sex with both women and men you're a bi-sexual person. I do and consider myself bi-sexual.
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