How do you like your breasts to be played with?

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Yeh I'm with you on that one.
My girlfriend says she doesn't get turned on at all from her breasts but I'm convinced that's me not quite playing with them right, rather than anything to do with her.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated, especially from the female community.
 

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Like how? I don't have a damn clue. My initial thought would be to squeeze the hell out of them! But I know thats wrong in most cases. My ex liked me to bite her nipples, but other than that I didn't know what to do with them titties.
What are we going to do with you, Kassokilleri2ff? :scratchchin:

I know you want advice from real women here, but also try googling for this stuff like this:
The Breast -- A Sensual User's Guide
How to Play with Breasts - Babeland

Don't do what they do in straight porn! Watch lesbian porn, especially just one-on-one. They are much more sensual with the breasts. The clips are usually longer and develop more slowly, but it's worth the time to study them. If I come across some nice clips I'll send them to you.
 

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What are we going to do with you, Kassokilleri2ff? :scratchchin:

I know you want advice from real women here, but also try googling for this stuff like this:
The Breast -- A Sensual User's Guide
How to Play with Breasts - Babeland

Don't do what they do in straight porn! Watch lesbian porn, especially just one-on-one. They are much more sensual with the breasts. The clips are usually longer and develop more slowly, but it's worth the time to study them. If I come across some nice clips I'll send them to you.

Yea I watch porn and I know that shit is not real, and not to take tips from there. Although I didn't think of lesbian porn lol. Thanks for the links! I learned alot ^_^
 
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Personally, I'm not into nipple pain... you should play with a womans nipples almost the same was as you'd kiss her... (assuming you're a good kisser! :tongue: )

I'm not into pain at all, personally... my nipples are sensitive, so it doesn't take much to hurt them, either. I like sucking, licking, flicking of the tongue... using a finger tip and rubbing the tops of them... as long as you're gentle, you should be okay... just don't be so gentle that she can't feel anything, because that IS possible.
 

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Personally, I'm not into nipple pain... you should play with a womans nipples almost the same was as you'd kiss her... (assuming you're a good kisser! :tongue: )

I'm not into pain at all, personally... my nipples are sensitive, so it doesn't take much to hurt them, either. I like sucking, licking, flicking of the tongue... using a finger tip and rubbing the tops of them... as long as you're gentle, you should be okay... just don't be so gentle that she can't feel anything, because that IS possible.

Same here.
 

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be gentle and mix in a bit of pain and pleasure. licking, sucking, and gentle biting is all good in my book. hold them firmly and caress them. just don't squeeze them like you're trying to squeeze lemons... that's like the worst thing.
 

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Like how? I don't have a damn clue. My initial thought would be to squeeze the hell out of them! But I know thats wrong in most cases. My ex liked me to bite her nipples, but other than that I didn't know what to do with them titties.
Uhm, your ex was a little kinky. :wink:
No biting! My nipps are way too sensitive. gentle licking, kissing, and sucking is fine. Good nipple play can make me moist. :wink::redface:

Do not turn them like knobs on a radio, or squeeze them like fruit in the produce aisle.

I don't. Don't touch them, they are there to look at, that's all. The piercings are sensitive as well.. don't make me hurt you.
Jesus, Kink! You won't kiss, they can't touch your tits (and they're huge so I don't see how they can't!), you won't do anal, what the hell is left? :confused:



 

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I think all women are different, and we go through stages. When I was younger I liked a different kind of stimulation than I do now. I never used to like my nipples tugged on or sucked hard. Now I love it - but still, should never hurt... very much.
 

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A woman explained to me about how differently I approached her--very gentle, very soft--and told me other guys thought breasts were like silly putty and could be stretched and pulled into different shapes. They seem to have been blindly unaware that it was part of the body, and thought that there was no pain.

Over the years small stories of men who grew up in slightly or not so slightly abusive households told me that often they felt absolutely nothing with parts of their bodies (except for the Big J), and a nipple piercing was one way to change that... most of the awareness of feeling had shut down.
 

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I'll take groping, massaging, squeezing, bouncing them, licking sucking fucking them. Make him my man bra when i'm his cock jockey. I love to grab his hands and make them cup my breasts when i am on top of him.

DAMN! That sounds fun. I want a man bra....
 

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I have unusualy large breasts - bigger than a graprefruit, more like a small cantaloup. Anyway this one guy used to wrap his hands around one and squeeze my breast up toward his mouth to suck the nipple like he was eating a treat. It was cute. He could have sucked a bit harder tho.
 

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I want the guy who is playing with them to start out gentle, lightly pulling at my nipples and rubbing them to get them hard if they're not already. If I want them tweaked harder, I'll tell him. If I'm on the rag, they are off limits.