So I recently started dating a guy who is a self proclaimed "dominant top". Sexually he's great! But I'm wondering what can I do to provide him the utmost pleasure?
How do you please a Dominant Top?
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if the sex is 'great' then your already doing something good. Continue doing that AND other things. Focus on 'him', make him feel like he's the only one. Talk to him as a 'sub'. Not sure if you do the 'yes sir, no sir' bit. The more you make him feel like he's the best the more he gets off on it.
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when i have been 'the sub', i have made my bull top think the world revolves around him and his penis. that is mostly what he is thinking of. i also make my ass available to him at all times. but i never 'come on' to him. . . he is always the aggressor.
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You either have to adore what the Dom Top is into, or you don't. Not much else a bottom can do.
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you could try reading: The Leatherman's handbook, By Larry Townsend. It is a good primer in old guard leather.
you could go to a leather bar in your area, or look into leather groups in your area. . those people know about kink culture and give you more information.
best of luck.
Misterslave.
you could go to a leather bar in your area, or look into leather groups in your area. . those people know about kink culture and give you more information.
best of luck.
Misterslave.
