How Do You Prepare For Dates? - Pumping Etc?

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hey fellas, do you have any advice on preparing for a date? play session? to harness short term gains?

what's your routine? prep? hours before a date or play?

for example, in a perfect world, I would pump HUGE before a date, to gain huge thickness, but when i do that, i get red blotches on my sensitive, fair skin. That obviously could concern a play partner. So i'm trying to figure out a way to do this....

It's Catch-22, to get big and fat, i have to use a lot of pressure, but if i use too much pressure, then i get the blotches. A low pressure pump, really doesn't do much. i wonder if taking a hot shower helps? open capillaries? They disappear a day or so after....

any tips? pointers?
 
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None, just be you. Clean, smart and smell good. All this crap of spending hours it’s not real life and it gives the impression you are high maintenance. Plus what happen if they see you on a bad day, which in a relationship you will. If they don’t like you for you, they ain’t worth it.
 

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When I have "play dates," my size and sometimes theirs, is a central feature of the date. So why not share what you do to get huge and share it. Most of my partners are fascinated or want to help or participate. I see no benefit to hiding any of it - full disclosure just adds to the erotic pleasure of the whole encounter. But maybe straight encounters are different. But, years ago, when I used to play with women, I made no secret of preferring male playmates ... it just seemed to intensify their interest in me.
 

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good points and i appreciate your insight. sadly, it still seems to underline the difference in sexes and preferences. women dont seem too particular about size. although i've been fortunate to attract some who do and some couples. I had one size queen who liked to pump me and it was amazing. but unfortunately some seemed confused and turned off by it, like it's some confession of insecurity.

also, if i show up with a huge fat dick with red blotches on it, women get concerned.

but i do appreciate your insight and agree with you. maybe i'll try a version of what you're saying. thank you!



When I have "play dates," my size and sometimes theirs, is a central feature of the date. So why not share what you do to get huge and share it. Most of my partners are fascinated or want to help or participate. I see no benefit to hiding any of it - full disclosure just adds to the erotic pleasure of the whole encounter. But maybe straight encounters are different. But, years ago, when I used to play with women, I made no secret of preferring male playmates ... it just seemed to intensify their interest in me.
 

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I often pump before "play dates" or "play parties" (back when we could still have such things...). But I have to make sure I do not overdo it. I'm pretty girthy naturally, and particularly if I've been pumping frequently, I can get too thick for many people to take. So I will limit my session, although if I know I'm going to be hooking up with certain people, I will go for a bit more girth. But I've learned you really don't want to pump up too huge.

I've never done it before a date expected to be non-sexual. But curiously, I will do it sometimes if I go out in public, according to the situation.
 

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interesting. may i ask which pump you use? you don't have any lingering issues after a big pump leaving any tiny red splotches that might bear explaining to a partner?



I often pump before "play dates" or "play parties" (back when we could still have such things...). But I have to make sure I do not overdo it. I'm pretty girthy naturally, and particularly if I've been pumping frequently, I can get too thick for many people to take. So I will limit my session, although if I know I'm going to be hooking up with certain people, I will go for a bit more girth. But I've learned you really don't want to pump up too huge.

I've never done it before a date expected to be non-sexual. But curiously, I will do it sometimes if I go out in public, according to the situation.
 

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Pumping really isnt gonna help before a date unless you've been doing it consistently.

If i have a fuck date planned, I up my dosage of proviron the day or 2 before, and take cialis 20-30 mgs at least 6hrs prior. If you use testosterone, theres a fast acting version called Test Suspension or TNE. Shit kicks in like a mother fucker in 2hrs, rock hard boners throbbing like crazy. Cabergoline is another one to try, for being able to fuck multi times easily.

Did this regimen for a swinger house party a few weeks back, was a lotta fun. We had Like 12+ ppl just sucking n fucking for hours.
 

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interesting. may i ask which pump you use? you don't have any lingering issues after a big pump leaving any tiny red splotches that might bear explaining to a partner?

I use the tapered cylinders I got from 665 leather, with a "Brake Bleeder" pump from Harbor Freight Tools. These are also among the lowest priced cylinders. (I haven't bought a new one in years, so I cannot vouch that the ones they stock now are the same, though.)

Click here: Cylinders

Right now, I usually use the 3 x 9 cylinder, although start out with a bit narrower one if it's been a while since I pumped. I can fill the 3 inch cylinder if I pump regularly, but at that point almost no one can take my cock, it's just too thick. So if I'm going to have sex (unless they are real pigs), I pump in moderation, and try not to exceed 7 inches in girth post-pump. I do use plenty of lubricant ("Udder Cream") and keep the suction level comfortable (usually about 7 inHg, 10 max), and have found more time, rather than more suction, to be most effective. I don't get red splotches, although sometimes I will be a bit misshapen behind the head. I find if I squeeze and massage this area, I can restore the proper shape.

Thinking back, when I first started, I would end up with a bruised-looking cock, where some of the tiny capillaries were broken. This might be what you mean by red splotches, although it was more like tiny spots. That doesn't happen anymore. However, over the years there has been a general darkening of my cock, although a lot of guys have darker skin there, so no one really notices this.
 
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interesting. thank you. i've never heard of anything that you're mentioning. i'll research it. thank you.

i will say though that when i pump, i stay thick for at least an hour or so plus....

i'm longer than thick, so i appreciate the thickness gained, if only temporary.

regarding staying hard, i'll check out those names you mentioned. thank you!


Pumping really isnt gonna help before a date unless you've been doing it consistently.

If i have a fuck date planned, I up my dosage of proviron the day or 2 before, and take cialis 20-30 mgs at least 6hrs prior. If you use testosterone, theres a fast acting version called Test Suspension or TNE. Shit kicks in like a mother fucker in 2hrs, rock hard boners throbbing like crazy. Cabergoline is another one to try, for being able to fuck multi times easily.

Did this regimen for a swinger house party a few weeks back, was a lotta fun. We had Like 12+ ppl just sucking n fucking for hours.
 
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interesting. thank you. i've never heard of anything that you're mentioning. i'll research it. thank you.

i will say though that when i pump, i stay thick for at least an hour or so plus....

i'm longer than thick, so i appreciate the thickness gained, if only temporary.

regarding staying hard, i'll check out those names you mentioned. thank you!

welcome man. Do u use a cock ring after pumping?
 

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Depends on your level of comfort with the woman. A cock ring applied right after pumping is most effective in maintaining the increased size during sex. But thats a matter of timing, lol. Not like if ur gonna go to movies with her n dinner etc, cant leave that ring on all night before its showtime lol

I still stand by Cialis as the best option, 6+ hrs before the meetup
 
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Ive once pumped my dick befor i went to the physiotherapist. She was looking at my bulge when she treated me. When I lay on the treatment couch, her head was maybe only 20 off my crotch. I had to watch out not getting a boner.
 
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thanks! you got a cock ring you recommend? there are so many of them. I'll try it out


Depends on your level of comfort with the woman. A cock ring applied right after pumping is most effective in maintaining the increased size during sex. But thats a matter of timing, lol. Not like if ur gonna go to movies with her n dinner etc, cant leave that ring on all night before its showtime lol

I still stand by Cialis as the best option, 6+ hrs before the meetup