How do you prepare yourself to take big dick?

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My hole is very tight and I wanna know how you guys prepare to take such big dicks?? Is there any toys I need to get in order to prepare myself and stretch my hole out?? How long should I train my hole for? What size toys should I get?
 

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Practice with a dildo so you get the general feeling. Before you have sex clean out your ass with a douche and you may want to wear a butt plug for a few hours before. Remember to use LOTS of lube.
Honestly though, on the occasion that I do bottom, for the most part your butthole goes back to normal every time. So any 'stretching out' would need to be done right before.
 

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My hole is very tight and I wanna know how you guys prepare to take such big dicks?? Is there any toys I need to get in order to prepare myself and stretch my hole out?? How long should I train my hole for? What size toys should I get?
I have found that toys have limited impact unless you use them all the time and are looser because of it. That wonderful round muscled has an amazing ability to snap back into virginity, especially if you don't take a big dick or many dicks on a regular basis. But there is hope. Two things I would recommend. First of all, get yourself porn-star clean, since a big on goes deeper where no man has gone before. You can just google "bottom cleaning out' and find step by step how to's. As for the stretching to accomodate a large dick, the most effective stretching happens during your love making (or lust making) session. Talk to the man behind the dick about fun ways to stretch you. Rimming is my favorite way to have a top loosen me up, but he needs to time it according to his size. Big cock means long rim. If he is a skilled top, he probably already does this, particularly given his size. He can also use toys on your if he enjoys that, starting small and working up in size. You should have the toys ready for him.Tell him to be generous with the lube. He can start with a finger, massaging in a circle, the one by one add more fingers. One trick a skilled top used to use on me was to put the tip of his well lubed cock at my very lubed hole, apply a little bit of pressure, and then rock his cock back and forth and up and down without thrusting (yet). He was very patient and gradual in the level of pressure. As I loosened he applied just a little more pressure and kept up the rocking motion. It was like his cock head was making out with my asshole. Not only did this feel awesome on my manhole, the pleasure and the his patient, very gradual pressure and rocking movement stretched me almost without my noticing. As with all bottoms, I was ready for at least a small amount of passing pain, as you should be in bottoming. If there is, try to concentrate on the sexiness of his wanting you, and remind yourself that the pain is very temporary. But this man entered me fully with no pain at all. He added to the sensuousness of it by kissing my neck and ears and shoulders and whispered into my ears as his hips rocked. By the time his hard penis had sunk deeper, my ass and I were begging for it, and I was ready to marry him. (I did, actually.) As a bottom, you offer your sexy assets and skills to his pleasure. A good top wants to do the same, keeping it mutual all the way from beginning to eruption and beyond. Talk to him about it.
 

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Dildo, practice, inflatable butt plug and a lot of want to. Poppers works wonders at relaxing the anal sphincter muscle. Once I took a really thick one that was basically it, I was stretched and love it. No feeling better than a really large cock in your bum fucking owning that space, taking what it wants and you patiently giving it every second it wants.
 

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I’m a rare straight CIS guy who loves to bottom. My wife started me out by pegging me. I was curious to try a real cock. A fuck buddy of mine helped me out. He’s average size and a butt plug and fingering got him in there. But if I’m going to want to watch my Hotwife with hung guys it’s only fair I take them on.
Enter, Oxballs. It’s a company in LA that makes butt toys primary for gay men. I ordered a medium. The largest insertable party is 6.25” in circumference! I finally got it in but decided I needed something a bit smaller to start off with so I ordered their small butt plug which is 5.25” at the largest insertable part.
That thing hits my prostate perfect when I sit down onto the base.
 

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I’m a rare straight CIS guy who loves to bottom. My wife started me out by pegging me. I was curious to try a real cock. A fuck buddy of mine helped me out. He’s average size and a butt plug and fingering got him in there. But if I’m going to want to watch my Hotwife with hung guys it’s only fair I take them on.
Enter, Oxballs. It’s a company in LA that makes butt toys primary for gay men. I ordered a medium. The largest insertable party is 6.25” in circumference! I finally got it in but decided I needed something a bit smaller to start off with so I ordered their small butt plug which is 5.25” at the largest insertable part.
That thing hits my prostate perfect when I sit down onto the base.
I'm gonna be honest with u hombre, ur not straight lol
 
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