I get it that this is talking about hot-or-not in the picture pefect sense... For me - like a few of the others posting above - being hot is not all about looks. I guess I need something more than perfect proportions. Charisma, is that what you say? I'm rarely - if at all - blown away by some guys looks alone.
I'm drawn to the eyes. They convey so much about the person - eyes give off intelligence, sense of humor, how you view others... Eye-to-eye contact is a definite turn-on. I like a man with a mischievous glance and a smile reaching his eyes.
Next to the eyes, the smile is important. I like that a person has different smiles: the awkward, insecure, nerdy smile or a confident, teasing, flirty grin, all in the same person. I guess I think it shows versatility of character...
That being said, a somewhat defined body and a larger than average cock is a definite bonus. There must be some kind of other connection between us, but if the sex is good I will stay in a relationship longer (not that that was the question or that all sex with hung guys is gratifying). Only once have I had a small dick tip the scale and made me end the relationship; making love is way more than just size. Perfect size for me is large average or a little more, I think. We all have our preferences. :tongue:
I guess the scientific answer to the hot-or-not question is: I'll let personality count 5 points out of 10, appearance 2 (1.5 of these eyes and smile), sex count 3 - the penis being one of these three. Just because I would like my man to have one... :wink: