And the most confusing thing is men who claim to be 11 inches seem to think that would be a good thing. They brag that they're 11 inches, even though in reality being that big would not be good. Stuff like that makes me think that for some guys the desire to have a big cock isn't about pleasing the woman, it's about being the biggest, baddest guy around. It's the SUV factor.
I think some guys get off on the idea of splitting a woman in two. Plus, they know they have to work harder and be more creative in order to bring a woman to orgasm. And no, we can't forget about the ego.
This particular fellow has a serious complex. He just emailed me two photos. It looks like he's 5" long (max) and 4" in girth. He looks nothing like his avatar. Sigh.