how do you react to being groped by a stranger?

[Darpon]

If it's a girl, I'd be happy and try to let her keep going. If she's super ugly or something, then my reaction would be less positive.

If it's a dude, it depends. If he's seriously a creepster and is grabbing my crotch as part of his perversion, he's getting a punch to the face, followed by punches and kicks until he's in serious pain, and probably bleeding heavily. I won't tolerate that shit.

If he's doing so partially as a joke, it depends if he's straight or gay. If he's straight, then I'd react with a "Whoa now!" and a laugh, and then a very strict warning. If it's a gay guy, he'll just get the strict warning.

That's all if I'm getting groped in the front. If someone grabs my ass, well then things are a bit different. I'd laugh and smile whether a chick or dude does it. It's a compliment. If a dude tries to do it too much, though, then it's a strict warning.

 

[Symphonic]

I'd be upset. I do not approve of said behavior.

 

[NotLongEnuff]

My flatmate (female) was travelling on the London Underground, yesterday, when a man sildled up to her & stuck his finger into the crotch of her jeans. Her reaction was to stamp on his foot. He then punched her in the face. Nice.

Tell her to tightly grab his belt, or waistband, at both hips (as opposed to his shoulders), pull him real close, and knee his balls like she is trying to touch the ceilling with her knee as many times as she can before he falls. He will not be able to hit her or get away before he is in more pain and more sorry than he ever thought he would be. He will not be punching anything except the wall next to him as he prays the swelling stops and he can walk again. Nobody has the right to touch anyone..unless they want to be of course. I hate guys who victimize women.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

My flatmate (female) was traveling on the London Underground, yesterday, when a man sidled up to her & stuck his finger into the crotch of her jeans. Her reaction was to stamp on his foot. He then punched her in the face. Nice.

Yeah, goddamn, that's shitty.

 

[Sassy]

I don't (take it, I mean)!!!!!!!!!:irked: I love it with the men I'm with, but DEFINITELY not with a stranger!

There were a few misguided boys with bruised gonads in my college days...

 

[D_Petherick_Poundlouder]

I don't like it. Simple as that.

 

[Aplus]

It's been very interesting to hear some of the guys say they don't like it. Can't remember it ever happening to me from a total stranger, man or woman. There have been a few times where I thought it might. I can remember being uncomfortable and quite defensive everytime. I don't have a problem if anyone bumps into me or accidently rubs against me though.

 

[voidout]

the worst.

 

[D_Hyacinth Harrytwat]

My flatmate (female) was travelling on the London Underground, yesterday, when a man sildled up to her & stuck his finger into the crotch of her jeans. Her reaction was to stamp on his foot. He then punched her in the face. Nice.

I guess his hand slipped? And then it slipped again?

 

[Ed69]

Any boy or girl groping me would run there hand over my 45 acp.Follow the the light fool!

Unless I've invited you into my bubble space don't touch..

 

[voidout]

Any boy or girl groping me would run there hand over my 45 acp.Follow the the light fool!

Unless I've invited you into my bubble space don't touch..

a fucking men.

 

[evilgirlie]

punch em in the throat.

 

[B_Nick4444]

it's happened

depends on how attractive the stranger is, how drunk I am, and whether any of my straight friends are around

 

[3664shaken]

Depends upon situation - total stranger - club, public place, don't know them - elbow, hell in their foot, slap.

In a club and we've been mutually flirting - it could lead to a fun time.

 

[L_Lynn]

Totally depends on what gets groped, how it gets groped and who the stranger is.

 

[Drifterwood]

Oh, but when guys do it, I punch them in the balls.

Midget.

 

[Octavarius]

Ah, the only time I've ever been groped before by strangers is at parties and such.

As of yet I haven't really cared, most the time it's just been girls grabbing my boobs while commenting on them. Then I've had girls grab them, a wee bit of silence, then they usually say, 'Wow, they're squishy.' Or something like that.

And then I've had a few bi/gay guys grab them or, usually, grab my ass. Ha, ha. I normally don't care as long as it's done in jest and good spirits.

 

[Redheadchi]

It happened to me twice. Once at a bar by a lady around 35-40 and I liked it. The second time was by my friends GF as we were walking through his house. He was leading she followed and I was after her. She reached back and got a handful of my junk. It made me very uneasy, and later we were playing pool and she slid her pool cue between my legs along my crotch.