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What are your reactions to getting cruised or seeing cruising and action in the locker room?
Not polite to curse someone before he is properly sower and dress. Crucio!What are your reactions to getting cruised or seeing cruising and action in the locker room?
Yeah, I will say that after my few times of being cruised by people I were not interested in made me realize how I may come off if by chance I wasn't receptive to a hint.Never happened to me but some friends had that experience. They felt really bad on that situation (and it help them to understand how women feel a lot of times, by the way), and I agree with them.
A locker room is private enough and public enough to be aware and respectful with others. And it is not about being uncomfortable around gay people (that is not the case), it is about feeling your personal space invaded, in a way. I don't know if I explained myself properly
Like, if I am in a bar and some guys are making up, I don't care. Or if some guy compliments me or even touch my butt, I would tell them that I am not interested and it will be 100% fine. But a locker room, a shower room, a sauna, a toilet... no. There it is not right.
In all the locker rooms I've ever been in, over many decades, I've never, ever, seen anything even remotely close to this happening. I live in the real world, not Fantasy Island, so normal locker room activity to me is changing in and out of workout gear, showering, and moving on with your day.What are your reactions to getting cruised or seeing cruising and action in the locker room?