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I moved to London 4 years ago and I have struggled to make friends. I never had any gay friends in my native country and was hoping I'd make some here!
However, I did notice that a lot of gay guys apparently have standards when it comes to friendship. By having standards, I mean the same standards they have for hookups: if you're not hot and fit they won't even talk to you...
Although I could kinda understand that mentality when it comes to hookups, I do not get it when it comes to finding friends? Many times I've met guys whom I told I was just looking for friends to go out with and they said they were looking for the same, but then they ended up not ''being interested''.
I also notice on Instagram that (most) gay guys seem to only have friends who look exactly like them...
Is it just me or do you guys find the same?
However, I did notice that a lot of gay guys apparently have standards when it comes to friendship. By having standards, I mean the same standards they have for hookups: if you're not hot and fit they won't even talk to you...
Although I could kinda understand that mentality when it comes to hookups, I do not get it when it comes to finding friends? Many times I've met guys whom I told I was just looking for friends to go out with and they said they were looking for the same, but then they ended up not ''being interested''.
I also notice on Instagram that (most) gay guys seem to only have friends who look exactly like them...
Is it just me or do you guys find the same?