Is honesty always the best policy? I don't necessarily go out of my way to tell guys that I'm a size queen off the bat, but it usually comes out in the wash eventually. If I have a marked preference for huge cocks but am willing to date people who don't have them if they're otherwise awesome and I'm attracted to them, should I go out of my way to hide my proclivities? I've found that guys have really different reactions when they inevitably find out. One was really secure and wasn't threatened by it at all, because he was confident that everything else he had to offer could more than compensate for his average-sized dick. Others will make it a point to frequently reference my tendencies (and not because they're turned on by them, as a cuckhold might be!) It's hard because even if I'm with an average guy, most of my fantasies revolve around group sex, and when I'm describing them it always involves hung guys.