How do you talk about it?

[britlover]

Originally posted by Dr Rock@Jun 1 2005, 12:34 PM
I must be lucky or something - the girls I have sex with pick up like half the boys I have sex with FOR me

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Maybe we need to be in the same neighbourhood sometime!

 

[madame_zora]

Originally posted by britlover+Jun 4 2005, 09:12 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(britlover &#064; Jun 4 2005, 09:12 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-Dr Rock@Jun 1 2005, 12:34 PM
I must be lucky or something - the girls I have sex with pick up like half the boys I have sex with FOR me

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Maybe we need to be in the same neighbourhood sometime&#33;

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Oh, I would SO love to pick up boys for my lover&#33; I pick up girls for them all the time, but that would be so cool.

 

[hung9mike]

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper@May 31 2005, 06:38 PM
What to do about your girlfriend. You&#39;re cheating on her. There is no way around it. If you&#39;re supposed to be in an exclusive relationship with her, every sexual outing with one of your "DL brothas"... constitutes an act of infidelity.

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I like DMW&#39;s take on the situation here. The bottom line is that your sexual orientation is not what&#39;s at issue here. It&#39;s the fact that you&#39;re cheating on your girlfriend. (Implicit in the idea of being on the "down low" is that you&#39;re supposed to be in a committed relationship with a woman-- it&#39;s not that you&#39;re closeted and using this woman as a cover.) Having sex with anyone, male or female, outside the boundaries of a committed relationship without the partner&#39;s knowledge and consent is wrong, not only because of the hurt it can cause, but also because of the risk of passing a sexually transmitted disease to your partner without the partner&#39;s knowledge of such a risk existing. If you really want to play the field, I&#39;d suggest breaking things off with your girlfriend with no other explanation than you want to start seeing other people; otherwise, if you really want to be with her and still have some action on the side, you&#39;re going to have to come clean with her and tell her the whole story. The alternative, if you don&#39;t like either of these two scenarios, is to be faithful to your girlfriend. The only other course, which is the one you&#39;re on now, is one which you know isn&#39;t right.

 

[B_black10inches]

I broke up with my girlfried last night. It was hell for me. She thinks I have another girl but I swore to her I didn&#39;t. She was so pissed at me that I was worried she was going to do something fucking stupid. So now I&#39;m living with some freinds from college & I&#39;m hoping things get better for me. Things couldn&#39;t get any worse.

 

[Ineligible]

I really hope it works out all right for you, black10. This is certainly a very difficult part of your life. I hope you find yourself and find some directions to go in.

 

[B_DoubleMeatWhopper]

Originally posted by black10inches@Jun 6 2005, 02:06 AM
Things couldn&#39;t get any worse.

Never say that. When you do, there often appears the Cosmic Joker that feels the need to prove you wrong.