How do you tell gay guys you arent interested..

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How do you let gay guys know you aren't interested before they make a move on you? Is there some secret sign that let's gay guys know you aren't interested no matter what?

Also, do gay guys have somekind of super power to be able to tell if a guy is big even when he has baggy clothes on?
 

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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Charlie14 &#064; Nov 7 2005, 05&#58;07 AM) [post=358781]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>
Is there some secret sign that let&#39;s gay guys know you aren&#39;t interested no matter what?

Also, do gay guys have somekind of super power to be able to tell if a guy is big even when he has baggy clothes on?
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no.
 

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I don&#39;t have problem with gay people or anything.. it is just really awkward.. and it seems like out of control.. maybe I am doing something that makes them think I am gay or something..
 

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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Charlie14 &#064; Nov 7 2005, 01&#58;56 AM) [post=358796]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>
I don&#39;t have problem with gay people or anything.. it is just really awkward.. and it seems like out of control.. maybe I am doing something that makes them think I am gay or something..
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Or you&#39;re really hot
 

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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Charlie14 &#064; Nov 7 2005, 05&#58;56 AM) [post=358796]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>
think I am gay or something..
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I can only imagine what you mean by "something".

Really, I think gay men are no different from ANYONE else on earth...if they see someone they are attracted to, they pursue them. You just may be one of those people who gets hit on by homosexual men, alot. It really isn&#39;t that bad - or bad at all, really.
 

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I have a friend who is good looking too and he thinks its weird too. He doesn&#39;t have gay guys moving on him like that, biut he isn&#39;t big though.
 

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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Charlie14 &#064; Nov 7 2005, 02&#58;07 AM) [post=358802]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>
I have a friend who is good looking too and he thinks its weird too. He doesn&#39;t have gay guys moving on him like that, biut he isn&#39;t big though.
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How big are you? Is it easy to tell under clothes?
 

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I can only imagine what you mean by "something".

I just meant or maybe I am attractive to gay guys for some reason.

It wouldn&#39;t be so bad if they weren&#39;t so forward or IMO disrespectful. Like one guy came up to me in a book store and out of the blue said he wanted to "pinch my dick".

I don&#39;t know.. I mean i have had girls do crazy stuff too.. but I guess with guys it just seems more agressive or uninvited.

How big are you? Is it easy to tell under clothes?

I&#39;m real big.. and you can see it in my clothes if I weare stuff that isn&#39;t baggy.. but I usually wear stuff that is baggy and I don&#39;t think you can tell.

But some girls said I have features that they could tell I was big like my hands feet and my nose but that was only 2 girls.
 

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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Charlie14 &#064; Nov 7 2005, 02&#58;16 AM) [post=358806]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>
I can only imagine what you mean by "something".

I just meant or maybe I am attractive to gay guys for some reason.

It wouldn&#39;t be so bad if they weren&#39;t so forward or IMO disrespectful. Like one guy came up to me in a book store and out of the blue said he wanted to "pinch my dick".

I don&#39;t know.. I mean i have had girls do crazy stuff too.. but I guess with guys it just seems more agressive or uninvited.

How big are you? Is it easy to tell under clothes?

I&#39;m real big.. and you can see it in my clothes if I weare stuff that isn&#39;t baggy.. but I usually wear stuff that is baggy and I don&#39;t think you can tell.

But some girls said I have features that they could tell I was big like my hands feet and my nose but that was only 2 girls.
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Well, consider what a lot of hetero guys say and do to girls..... then change the sexualities around.



I&#39;m guessing that you&#39;re a shower then. I dunno how I do it, but I&#39;m usually able to pick the hung guys out of a line up without them taking their pants off. It&#39;s a super human skill I was blessed with.
 

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How big are you? Is it easy to tell under clothes?

I&#39;m real big.. and you can see it in my clothes if I weare stuff that isn&#39;t baggy.. but I usually wear stuff that is baggy and I don&#39;t think you can tell.

But some girls said I have features that they could tell I was big like my hands feet and my nose but that was only 2 girls.

Well, consider what a lot of hetero guys say and do to girls..... then change the sexualities around.

I guess that is true.

I don&#39;t know.. maybe it is just a phase.. hopefully it it ends soon
 

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This girl I know said to do the opposite and wear tight clothes and when guys saw how big I was they would be scared of it. lol Would that work or would they just be more interested?
 

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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Charlie14 &#064; Nov 7 2005, 12&#58;32 AM) [post=358812]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>


But some girls said I have features that they could tell I was big like my hands feet and my nose but that was only 2 girls.


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And all those features do is say you have big hands, big feet and a big nose. These so called "features" mean absolutely nothing.

Any way, maybe they think you&#39;re gay by the way you carry yourself or maybe by the way you dress (meticulously neat, yes you can be meticulously neat even in baggy clothing), I don&#39;t know. I can usually tell by the eyes, there&#39;s just a look in the eyes that, that for me, is a dead give away. Maybe you send out a "vibe" or something that is misleading. You can always consider their advances a compliment, but when hit on, just say "Thanks, but no thanks". word will eventually get around.
 

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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(horribleperson56 &#064; Nov 7 2005, 06&#58;58 AM) [post=358821]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>
try saying " I&#39;m not gay" and if he don’t get it, then try running away from him
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Yeah run like the house is on fire.......let out a few shrilled screams of "LAWD HELP ME" as you run. Perhaps then they&#39;ll think "hey, maybe he&#39;s not interested".


<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Charlie14 &#064; Nov 7 2005, 06&#58;32 AM) [post=358812]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>
I&#39;m real big..
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Exactly, how big is "real big"?
 

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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Charlie14 &#064; Nov 7 2005, 01&#58;07 AM) [post=358781]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>
How do you let gay guys know you aren&#39;t interested before they make a move on you? Is there some secret sign that let&#39;s gay guys know you aren&#39;t interested no matter what?

Also, do gay guys have somekind of super power to be able to tell if a guy is big even when he has baggy clothes on?
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Answer to your first question: You let them know you aren&#39;t interested before they make a move on you exactly the same way a woman lets a man know she isn&#39;t interested before he makes a move on her. Answer to you your second question: There is a sign, but it is not secret - you have to wear it around your neck. Answer to your third question: We gay guys have all kinds of super powers, but we won&#39;t reveal them to you.
 

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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(DC_DEEP &#064; Nov 7 2005, 02&#58;09 PM) [post=358882]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>
We gay guys have all kinds of super powers, but we won&#39;t reveal them to you.
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Yeah, its good to have a little mystique......
 

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Yup, I would say you&#39;re probably gay but just don&#39;t realize it yet, and you&#39;re sending out that gay-vibe thing that the gays with the superpowers can pick up on.

I wouldn&#39;t worry so much about the guy who wanted to pinch your dick -- he sounds like a total loser. Stick with the guys who approach you wanting to deepthroat your dick. That&#39;ll be a much more satisfying experience for you.