<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Charlie14 @ Nov 8 2005, 05:14 AM) [post=359089]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>Aren't there ways to let other guys know you are gay? Why is it so strange to think there might be a way to let guys know you aren't gay?
[/b][/quote]Well, first, you need to get rid of all your Dolce and Gabbana...
Seriously, speaking from a gay man's perspective, there's no real secret here. Gay men take the time to notice other guys. If I feel like I'm being "checked out" by some guy, even if it's only very casually, I assume the guy is gay. Other men are more or less invisible to straight men.
I also believe that a lot of guys would be seriously put off by an advance from another man. (That's the point of this thread.) I can't speak for all gay men here, but I'd say that I err on the side of caution, unless I'm certain that the guy is gay, I wouldn't assume that he is. How would I know? See above...
If gay guys are just checking you out, there's not a lot you can do about it, that's what gay guys do. And it's not because they think you're gay, it's because they find you attractive. And you should really try to take it as a compliment. But if you feel like you're being
approached by gay men, my guess is that they're sensing "checking you out" signal.