How do you tell gay guys you arent interested..

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panthera said:
GoneA is done for what? For me? And all this time I thought you were...oh, now I get it. Never mind, just never mind.


**Tries to make sense of that**

I was "down for" impeaching Bush.
 

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Mate, enjoy the attention and be flattered as you would be if it was a chick.

Most gay guys will take the knock-back OK, depends how you knock them back - it's best to be straight with them and say that it doesn't float your boat.

In answer to your second part, I agree, gay guys seem to have a sixth sense when sniffing out guys with big dicks - almost supernatural.

Chris :p
 

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Charlie14 said:
I'm sorry. You 're really making me laugh at your questions.
In answer to your first question: How would you let a WOMAN know that you were not interested? Use the same method on guys.

Aren't there ways to let other guys know you are gay? Why is it so strange to think there might be a way to let guys know you aren't gay?
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In answer to your second question: No there are no secret powers. There must be something about your outward appearance that people( both men and women ) find attractive.

Some girls say they can tell if a guy is big.. I though maybe gay guys might know even more aobut guys than girls.

I hope that you can be as tactful in turning away gay men as you would be in turning away a woman who isn't your type. That's a quality that everyone can admire. Good luck.

It seems like people assume I am some gay basher or something.. like I said. I have no problem with gay guys. I just have a problem with some guys not seeming to understand no. Like they can sell me on being gay.
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I don't believe that you are a gay basher. It sounds to me like you are a nice straight guy who doesn't want to hurt someone elses feelings. However, you have the right to discourage unwanted advances whether from a man or a woman.

If one particular guy is attracted to you; you politely tell him thanks, you're not interested; and that same guy doesn't get the message, well now, it's time to send a stronger message. Something like," I SAID I'm not INTERESTED! " spoken in a louder, angrier voice.

It's true that some people don't want to take no for an answer.
 

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But the size of your crotch makes you celebrity status. I am for the most part, GAY, and I am curious about what hetero's do behind closed doors. The size and thickness of a str8 cock that I will likely never feel. It's admiration, acknowlegement, respect and flirting all wrapped in one emotion. :D

And when a str8 guy shows me his cock, for just a look, something really cool happens. I feel admiration and respect for the amount of courage it took for him to unzip. And he becomes instant hero/friend and is celebrated. Even quietly from a distance. :cool:

Since you are 11 inches and as thick as a beer can, anyone that suspects your package, will always be curious until they have seen for them self. Why not post some pics on the internet or create a web page, and when they hit on you, give them the link on a card. When they go on-line and say 'oh my gosh' under their breath, looking at your hugeness, they will also see your profile writeup - For the guys, you can see it here. But thats as far as I go, as I am only here for the ladies! You might even make a few bucks, might earn respect, and stardom! :D
 

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I wish somebody here would have given you the answer how to prevent unwanted flirting. I could really use it (I am hit on by people- men and women who I have absolutely no interest in.) From all of my experience you just have to wait until it happens and then react to it. I have noticed a large number of people telling you to just tell them you are “not interested” Why not just be straight (pardon the pun) with them and tell them in these exact words- “Thanks, but I am not gay”? I do not see anything wrong with this approach. It is not a judgment- you are not saying “I am not gay and you should not be either.” You are just telling the truth about who you are. As for dealing with the women who you have no interest in: good luck. If you are direct you are an Ass****. If you are not direct they continue to pursue. From my perspective it is far easier to deal with the unwanted advance of a gay man than it is a straight woman. All that is needed is honesty. Anyhow, good luck.
 

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most gays and bi men are psychic with sensitive intuitions you straight men will never have and it is a known fact that this site is mostly for men t hats right women have no business here this is gay territoy of men watching men bulges and cocks and aur intuition of being psychis is instill in us that will tell us if you well endowed or not and another thing if you are straight you should have by now a on e woman who your married too with kids and you shouldnt even be here cause if want to talk about cock your responses will be gay,so take the heat and simply say i am married and show your wedding ring for your committment of a one relationship,da.
 

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vichairyass said:
most gays and bi men are psychic with sensitive intuitions you straight men will never have and it is a known fact that this site is mostly for men t hats right women have no business here this is gay territoy of men watching men bulges and cocks and aur intuition of being psychis is instill in us that will tell us if you well endowed or not and another thing if you are straight you should have by now a on e woman who your married too with kids and you shouldnt even be here cause if want to talk about cock your responses will be gay,so take the heat and simply say i am married and show your wedding ring for your committment of a one relationship,da.

Another fine work of literary prowess.
 

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Matthew said:
The lack of punctuation screams, "It's Art!"

It's fine art!
Its not meant to be read; its meant to be looked at ......like the painting of a hideous man. Though we struggle to turn away, we can't......:eek: :p
 

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Charlie14 said:
If they haven't actually done anything to indicate an interest, then it's presumptuous of you to jump to conclusions.

Actually, it isn't presumptuous.. because they HAVE in fact made moves on me. What I wanted to know is if there was some way to prevent guys from making moves on me.

I never assumed anything about anyone. It's not like I am imagining people hitting on me or making lewd comments.

Just forget it.. I am sorry I even asked.

Next time I will just give someone a warning not to cross the line and if they do then I will put them in the hurt locker.
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You could always wear a tee shirt that says, "God Hates Fags." That would keep a lot of people away......................
 

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You musta speekey very a loud and a very a slowww! No Luigi, I'ma no interesteded!

Gays are like that, they only understand bad Italian accents spoken at ear splitting volume. Also, it doesn't hurt to wear a tangerine speedo while you're saying it. Having an ear of corn in your your left hand during a gibbous moon helps quite a bit, as well. Since gays aren't really people, you need to jump through a lot of hoops to break the cross species barriers.
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vichairyass said:
most gays and bi men are psychic with sensitive intuitions you straight men will never have and it is a known fact that this site is mostly for men t hats right women have no business here this is gay territoy of men watching men bulges and cocks and aur intuition of being psychis is instill in us that will tell us if you well endowed or not and another thing if you are straight you should have by now a on e woman who your married too with kids and you shouldnt even be here cause if want to talk about cock your responses will be gay,so take the heat and simply say i am married and show your wedding ring for your committment of a one relationship,da.

I marvel at your intelligence.