How do you wear a cockring?

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Lex said:
Remember it restricts bloodflow and is suypposed to keep blodd going in but not let as much out.
It's the going in part that was the problem. I couldn't get hard wearing it. Obviously that defeats the whole purpose. The reason I bought them in the first place is I have a tendency to get hard just fine when fully clothed and just making out but when I undress and the time comes to use it I lose my erection and can't get it back. It's because of this that a majority of my sexual encounters have failed to result in sex. But I'm not sure what the problem was. Was it just too tight?
 

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Thanks Guys! I was reading the back of my package that I got it in and the pic shows that it only goes over the penis...so I dunno it's a rubber one and I tried getting my balls in it and it works but it's tight and i pulled alot of my hairs out on my balls...:eek: yes it hurt!
 

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ChuckRich said:
It's the going in part that was the problem. I couldn't get hard wearing it. Obviously that defeats the whole purpose. The reason I bought them in the first place is I have a tendency to get hard just fine when fully clothed and just making out but when I undress and the time comes to use it I lose my erection and can't get it back. It's because of this that a majority of my sexual encounters have failed to result in sex. But I'm not sure what the problem was. Was it just too tight?

ChuckRich--I think it was probably too tight.

As I mentioned, my cock ring is adjustable. I put it on while soft or semi. Once I am hard, I tighten it.

"Get it up, tie it off" as some guys say.

I can see where trying to get a full erection with a tight ring on could be problematic.
 

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I don't believe the cock ring is going to give you an erection. If it is tight enough to do that I reckon it is too tight. I wear mine as I have balls that get drawn up tight when I am aroused. I prefer the look and feel of my balls if they are held forward. The rings you can buy as "cock rings" in shops are all a little small and get uncomfortable very quickly. Mine is from a horse's harness. I bought a rubber "training bit" which has two, 55mm rings one for either side of the horses mouth, for the reins. As the bit came from a farm shop it cost a fraction of the cost of a cock ring from a sex shop and you get two rings. They are better made, using surgical steel and perfectly finished so as not to damage the horse. You need wire cutters to get them off the bit. Be caref ul not to nick the steel.

I would suggest that if you need a cock ring to get hard in the first place you should consider whether you are with the right partner. If you are on your own maybe you should read a book or do something else until you feel truly horny.

Metal tends to bite after a while although it is fun and visually looks good. Leather straps can be put on and taken off without having to panic about getting stuck. Leather can be adjusted too. Leather gets better as it is used and gets gloriously soft if you use an oil based lube.

I discovered cock rings or the principle at least when I was about eleven or twelve when I realised how good it felt to tie my pyjama cord round the base of my cock when I got an erection. It's about your balls tugging to be drawn up and your scrotum tightening that is what gives the stronger hard on not blocking blood vessels which, especially on the cock, can be dangerous and damaging over time.

And before you ask about that kid of eleven discovering cock rings...I was introduced to the joys of wanking by the older brother of my best friend when I was about eight.

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I have just started wearing a cock ring but I think it is a little small. I enjoy wearing it and will cotinue to explore till I get the right fit etc.

Jose - cant beleive the ease that you can get yours on. Enjoyed the vid but I think I need to do more homework
 

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robbie7au said:
I have just started wearing a cock ring but I think it is a little small. I enjoy wearing it and will cotinue to explore till I get the right fit etc.

Jose - cant beleive the ease that you can get yours on. Enjoyed the vid but I think I need to do more homework

Thanks,
Its easy pick a nice snug size and slip one ball in and then the other ball and then pull your penis through and your good to go! Jose'Latinoboy9:cool:
 

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Lex said:
I have a silicone one that is a noose so that you can loosen it and then tighten once you are hard. Remember it restricts bloodflow and is suypposed to keep blodd going in but not let as much out.

Here is a pic of my in my cock ring.

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Feels nice to be wanted LEX! Thanks Jose'Latinoboy9:cool:
 

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I have tried a cockring and I like the feel it gives me. Sort of keeps things up fromt a little. Never wore it for sex yet.

any help here about sources of stainless steel rings?
 

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Grit said:
I have tried a cockring and I like the feel it gives me. Sort of keeps things up fromt a little. Never wore it for sex yet.

any help here about sources of stainless steel rings?

Let me recommend Gear Essentials.

http://www.gearessentials.com/oscommerce/catalog/

You can order from them online or buy their merchandise at certain specialty stores around the nation. They bear a satisfying weight.

I've had sex with them on 2 occasions. It's risky. Before you have sex with it on, you need to know how you react with the cockring on in an erect state. If it cuts off too much circulation (a) your ring is too small and (b) sex could be even more painful b/c of the heightened sensitivity. As well, you may need to curtail the amount of time you have sex b/c you don't want the ring to constrict blood flow for too long. That means you will need to cum and then let your cock naturally deflate before you can remove a steel cockring. A leather cockring may be better for sex.

Also, in case it matters, a steel cockring can heighten pleasure during sex but it will also lessen the amount of penetration that you achieve.
 

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Check out my photos for my solution to this burning issue :) The one closer to the body is the larger of the two (only very slightly larger). As my dick hardens I periodically push them closer in for a tighter fit. My rock hard erections can last for hours this way, and an additional bonus is that the veins show in greater relief. By the way, none of my pics so far show my erection at its optimum hardness. (You'll have to be patient!)
 

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my cock is about 9.5x6.7 and i have a big cock ring. when i get hard it is a little bigger and man can you fuck like a champ. as the guy said only put it on whenyou are soft and let it get hard. if you have big nuts you need to work on getting them to go through. i wish you were here i would show you how to do it and help you out afterwards too. smile!
 

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I like wearing a metal cockring it needs to be just a bit smaller than you are. I use a 2 1/4" diam. metal ring, but yes if you are really hard takes a while for it to come back down and sometimes if up over an hour it aches a little. Still love to wear it on occassion.