How Does A Bottom Look?

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Bottoms vary in size, age, and attitude. What do you look for in a bottom? What traits do you look for in a bottom?


Ok..so the question I've been asking my friends is "HOW DOES A BOTTOM LOOK". Are they supposed to show their ass first in pics or have this "soft" look to their face? What should a bottom look like?
 

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Bottoms vary in size, age, and attitude. What do you look for in a bottom? What traits do you look for in a bottom?


Actually I am a bottom...I've just grown tired of bottoms and tops telling me I don't look like a bottom. Hence my asking here where nobody knows what I look like outside of my crotch. To get an unbiased answer if its just the dummies in this city or is it something that I'm doing or not doing.

But I do agree with your response...that's the same thing I've been saying only to be told I should show more ass pics and be more of a "bottom" in my thinking and emotionally. I still don't get that part. Lol
 
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11-24-2012:

you win the prize for the most ridiculous and ignorant question in this section so far....


Actually you win the dumbest response to a question! Thank you for just trying to be a catty BlTCH and failing rather than answering the question.:biggrin1:
 

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the answer to the question is that there is no answer to this question.... being a top or bottom has no 'look' because anal sex is an action and not an aesthetic.... (an ASS-thetic maybe....)

and PS: my attack was on the question and not on you.... there is no need for name calling....
 

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I found that most top are more masculin and bottom are less.
But it's just a personal diagnostic.
Besides that you have to ask the guy...
Has for the look. Just be yourself.
 

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Answer: I don't know. . How does a top, look?. . or How does a Heterosexual Look. I agree that it is a somewhat ridiculous statement/question. I do not think you can just look at someone and just know. I will just qualify what I say, based on the leather community. there exists something called the (hanky-code) and depending in what pocket you have, or observe some other person's hanky in. . . it can give a clue as to someone being top or bottom. . or perhaps give or receive . . or dominant or passive for certain kinks and fetishes.

However. . at a glance. . I doubt seriously anyone could just tell, without asking first.
 

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I'm a bottom and I would like to think im pretty masculine. There's definitely no answer to this question
 

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I definitely agree...just I've heard that too many times and let it get to me for a moment...after comments like those I stop talking to that person. As I've said to them and anyone else; there is no cookie cutter mold for a type of guy.

Thanks for the reassurance though.

While I understand your reasoning for the questions..it is somewhat ridiculous. There is no look for this, just as there in no answer for... "what does a gay guy look like?". Don't let it bother you.... and have fun.