How Does A Married Guy Cope With Premature Ejaculation?

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I suffer from this horrible thing, premature ejaculation (PE). It's the condition when you get to the 'point of no return' very very quickly, without being able to control. I wonder if any of you guys suffers from the same condition, and how do you cope with that?
 
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There are a few ways to cure yourself from PE (not that I have suffered from it), and I think it's about using masturbation to bring yourself close to the edge and easing back, and doing that again and again until you can master the same thing during intercourse.

I was trained in Tantric techniques which are about prolonging intercourse for mutual satisfaction, and also an enhanced male orgasm (and multiple orgasms although I don't both much with that). The technique I use is creative visualisation where I visualise-away my sexual energy flow. I knew how to meditate and it's an extension of that, where you visualise your sexual energy being drawn up your spine to the top of your head and away. You need to know the basics about chakras to make it work, and I was trained one-on-one by a Goddess (the way they used to train men way back in the day)

Eventually when you reverse that flow and come, it's a big, full-body orgasm and then some. So for someone like me who had good control it was still a worthwhile exercise, and my wife likes it as well.
 

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when I was younger I had the same problem, only my recovery rate was zero, I stayed hard, and kept fucking. when I hooked up with my now wife, we had sex so often, I just somehow learned to control it. I took great pleasure in pleasing my wife. almost as an observer, I loved watching her on top of me, with her great, large boobs, long brown hair cascading over her shoulders, breasts. her bouncing on my big cock, being deep and tight in her puss. she writhing with pleasure, and when she could stand no more I'd roll her over, pile drive her to a couple more orgasms.
 

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Another thing to consider is having your partner manipulate you a lot as part of foreplay. Some partners get the message that by touching your penis, you will erupt, so they say away from it. Then you go from no touch from your partner to entry, wham it's sensory overload. Rather delay entry and concentrate on all the other stuff. Anxiety, is also a big trigger. I have heard that some people have PE with certain partners and not others.
 

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I've always had the opposite problem. When I get to 30 minutes my wife is saying, "its time to finish now". She used to say that at an hour. I can, but sometimes it's not when she wants. The longest was 2.5 hours but I wanted to that time. She wasn't completely in to it. I was edging. But, I have never been able to edge that way since. Long time ago.