How does a secretly bi husband find dick

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I used to live in Ky. The gym is always a good place to start. I know guys who use apps like scruff or grinder but you have to be with that stuff on your phone. Websites like this one or adam4adam might be helpful too. Best of luck. There are many men like you out there.
 
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I’m a married bi guy who is on the down low. I would like to suck dick occasionally but how and where can I find it? Any tips guys? I’m in Kentucky
That is the $64k question. I've been checking adam4adam. Messaged a few guys. But not made a connection yet. It seems the timing between two discreet situations is the tough part.
 

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While I don’t condone cheating on your spouse...
  1. just get a second phone
  2. download all the sex apps you can find
  3. Hide said phone in a place like a lockbox, and use a code that only YOU know. Don’t keep it near your spouse, or on your person.
  4. Keep your story straight(no pun intended.)
 
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First , get divorced , stop living a lie .

It's unfair to your wife to be noshing cocks behind her back - she deserves to know .

Furthermore - it's unfair to meet new men and use then - knowing you can't commit to them because you are married to someone else .
 

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First , get divorced , stop living a lie .

It's unfair to your wife to be noshing cocks behind her back - she deserves to know .

Furthermore - it's unfair to meet new men and use then - knowing you can't commit to them because you are married to someone else .
This.
 

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First , get divorced , stop living a lie .

It's unfair to your wife to be noshing cocks behind her back - she deserves to know .

Furthermore - it's unfair to meet new men and use then - knowing you can't commit to them because you are married to someone else .
I agree with "Almost" all of this.

The last comment, most guys on apps are there for the same reasons. Especially, if you're upfront with them regarding your intentions (aka "NSA") they're not going to feel used.
 
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First , get divorced , stop living a lie .

It's unfair to your wife to be noshing cocks behind her back - she deserves to know .

Furthermore - it's unfair to meet new men and use then - knowing you can't commit to them because you are married to someone else .
I totally agree. I am married and bisexual and have not, and will not be jumping into bed with any men or women that aren't my wife! Why is it that people think because you like cock you must go out and get it, even at the expense of a marriage?
 

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It is real HARD to do, wish there was a silver bullet for finding a feeder.
I like Silverdaddies and Squirt.

I’m a married bi guy who is on the down low. I would like to suck dick occasionally but how and where can I find it? Any tips guys? I’m in Kentucky[/QUOTE
 
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I use all the apps as well and do well meeting others. I usually meet with married guys like myself and I have enjoy them all. Lucky for me I guess I haven't had any bad experiences. All the guys I have met do not want a long term thing just a fling now and then.
 

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Get a kik app. Then when it appears on your phone hide it in a utility folder. Move it to the second or third page in that utility folder. You don’t want it to be in the visible utility apps square, rather you want to open the utility folder and have to swipe left to the next page or 2. Then once you set it up (I use thumprimt to access) go to settings in that app and turn off any email notifications. Now you are safe. Find a drop down of options to find friends or PUBLIC GROUPS. Use the search and type in things like bi men, or bi men and your town. Look at the members.
 

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I use all the apps as well and do well meeting others. I usually meet with married guys like myself and I have enjoy them all. Lucky for me I guess I haven't had any bad experiences. All the guys I have met do not want a long term thing just a fling now and then.
Meeting a local married friend tomorrow night and looking forward to it.