How does a woman rape a man?

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  1. JMeister

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    I am trying to understand this. How does this happen? If the woman has a gun or other weapon she could force a guy to do something to her. If this how it occurs? Or is it simply a physically strong woman overpowering a weaker guy? Or something else?

    And please spare the no man can be raped because they got it up bullshit.
     
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    Well, I don't think it happens nearly as often as women are raped by men...but I would assume the woman would have to tie the guy up or knock him out. All she'd have to do then is stimulate him somehow until he gets hard enough, then mount him? Never really heard of a case like that, but I think that would be just about the only way it could happen, especially if the man is bigger/stronger.

    Once the guy has penetrated the girl against his will, unless the chick was just butt ugly I doubt he'd lose the erection. Pussy is pussy...although I don't know, never been in that situation to be able to say for sure. Just my two cents.
     
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    Though i am unable to prove it...i believe that i was...i have blurred visions of an incident which suggests i was drugged...a penis pump was then used to get me erect...of course, it could have been a very weird dream having been drinking alcohol that night but does not explain waking up with my jeans round my knees and i never get too drunk that i do'nt remember the night before...it is a very suspect occasion in my life and will happily agree with the claim that it is possible
     
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    People tend to forget, arousal can be an involuntary response in men, just like women. Many women feel that their body has "betrayed" them when they lubricate during a rape.
     
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    hmm...tie him up, slip him a Viagra, and i think she'll be set.
     
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    She sticks a dildoe up his ass without lube.
     
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    Ya know, I've wondered this a lot myself. I used to go along with the train of thought "well if he got hard, he wanted it, it wasnt rape" I have since learned men get erections in some very unsexy situations, (like fistfights)- I can remember making boyfriends swear to me if they loved me no way could they get hard and a would-be rapist would be wasting her time.
    hah.

    Even I think if a man intensely dislikes a woman- if she can push the right buttons so to speak- it can happen.
    violent rape I think falls in a different category than what I imagine, cos say a guy is mugged on the street- beaten up a bit- and say the muggers a guy who wants to watch his woman get off on the victim. I mean, if she started sucking him, if he's not unconscious, wouldn't the inevitable occur, though it would still be rape?

    this is a tough issue- often why they've had such difficulties in sentencing female teachers for affairs with teenage students. No one it seems, believes its rape if the victim has a penis.
     
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    I've heard of a case of harassment where a female boss forced a young guy on her staff to have sex with her or she'd find an excuse to fire him. I'd say that comes pretty close.
     
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    I am not sure but I don't think intercourse is actually the bases of rape it all cases. If she gave him a blow job under restraint that could be considered rape. But if you are a President I don't think blow jobs count as sex.
     
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    I remember reading a story years ago about 3 or 4 college age girls who participated in the raping of a male gay student. Just one of the girls had sex with the guy. The other girls held the guy down. What I remember being sad about the whole situation was that not long after the rape..... the guy committed suicide.
     
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    Watch 40 days and 40 nights with Josh Hartnet.
     
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    this almost happened to me when I was in middle school...
    2 girls grabbed me when I was alone at the playground...
    they tried to hold me down & make me have sex with them, but I was able to fight them off...
     
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    Answer: it's hard.
     
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    Intoxication. Women can take advantage of intoxicated men, though I think it is quite rare.

    I have never been so drunk I couldn't get a hard on - unfortunately.

    Actually, maybe once.
     
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    You drink hardly at all, drifter?
    Unfortunate.
     
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    Well my favorite way to get raped by a woman is when she straps one on....

    How could it matter if you get it up or not in that circumstance?


    Seriously, tho... rape has to do with intent.

    The thing about rape that causes the most mental anguish is the combining of an experience you do not want with the fact that stimulation of the nerves in your sex organs is pleasurable.

    THAT is what makes it so vile...

    If a horny enough man can fuck a cantaloupe, and get off... or a woman can ride the washing machine, and get off... that tells you that sexual stimulation is sexual stimulation and the circumstance of who, what when and how are secondary to the stimulation itself.


    So, yes... it is possible to get a man hard against his will... it is also possible to give a woman an orgasm against her will.

    This does NOT make the rape less heinous...
    It would make it FAR FAR WORSE.


    That mixing of terror and pleasure... that will be recalled or evoked for the rest of one's life when trying to make love... if why its such a vile crime
     
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    Well, date rape drugs I guess could be one way, slipping something in a guy's drink. Although, not sure how that would effect a guy being able to get it up. Overpowering a guy into sex, blackmailing him, threatening.

    The exact same way a guy would rape a girl...

    The reason a lot of women say a girl CAN'T rape a guy, is that most are familiar with rape in that a guy overpowers a girl... and while that can happen in reverse, it's a little more difficult, 'cause most girls aren't stronger then most guys. Me thinks, at least.

    It does happen, though.
     
  18. ManlyBanisters

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    Yes, and not one female ever has heard of a knife or a gun, and even if she had she'd not want to chip her nails using one :rolleyes:
     
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    Well, if it was a perfect world, yes, we'd all carry around a knife or gun, but still, I mean, occasionally you might forget it at home or something. :/ All I'm saying is that in most rape cases, as I've heard, the guy has overpowered the girl. >.>

    Also, in a state of panic, a lot of people, guy and girl, would not think to reach for a weapon.
     
  20. ManlyBanisters

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    What are you yimmering about?

    You said a girl can't rape a guy because a girl can't overpower a guy - I said (in a roundabout way) a girl can use a weapon to overpower a guy.

    Geddit?

    Oh and in your perfect world there would be a need to carry weapons? Yikes!
     
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