How Does Anal Feel?

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I am so scared of the idea of something going up my ass! I hear its the best orgasm, but damn, my ass hole is so small and tight! No pun intended.
It's essential you get initiated by someone you trust implicitly and who will take you gently and respond to your needs. With a skillful and caring top who will take care of you, there's nothing better than being a bottom. As you gain experience, you should be able to take it better and probably take bigger dicks.

I've know too many guys who had an idiot for a top* the first time, and bottoming was such a miserable experience that they never want to do it again. Sad but true.


* you know the type, the ones who only want to shove their cock in and fuck hard without any consideration for the bottom...lowlife scum, they are!
 

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It completely depends on how your own anatomy is constructed. I never was able to have anal sex and derive anything from it other than pain and bleeding.

In my own case it was explained in colonoscopy several years later because that also hurt and caused bleeding. I have an extra curve in my anatomy in a location that most people do not.

Anal sex for the person on the giving/penetrating end is in my opinion better than vaginal sex. I have also in my long checkered past been with many who are able to achieve total orgasmic bliss simply by being fucked.

If it is your first time take it very slowly, use a great deal of lubrication and most of all unless you really honestly know the sexual track record of the person penetrating you, play it safe and use a condom. These days you have to be very careful and make the experience the best one you could have, and not have to worry about it after the fact.

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It's essential you get initiated by someone you trust implicitly and who will take you gently and respond to your needs. With a skillful and caring top who will take care of you, there's nothing better than being a bottom. As you gain experience, you should be able to take it better and probably take bigger dicks.

I've know too many guys who had an idiot for a top* the first time, and bottoming was such a miserable experience that they never want to do it again. Sad but true.


* you know the type, the ones who only want to shove their cock in and fuck hard without any consideration for the bottom...lowlife scum, they are!

So very true.
I was lucky enough that my first was the kind, considerate, gentle type and got me addicted to anal. Anal sex with him was amazing. But the next guy he was an selfish shit. He was the type who didn't care how much he hurt me as long as he got off. needless to say he only got it once or twice through out our entire relationship.

The top/giver especially the first time has to be someone you trust.
 

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I've know too many guys who had an idiot for a top* the first time, and bottoming was such a miserable experience that they never want to do it again. Sad but true.


* you know the type, the ones who only want to shove their cock in and fuck hard without any consideration for the bottom...lowlife scum, they are!

Yeah that's bad, there are some a*seholes who get off on trying to shove their cock as hard as they can into a new bottom and hurt him. They're idiotsbut there seem to be quite a few about it seems.

However, it can also happen if it's the top's first time too or he isn't very experienced either. Unfortunately I've been like that too. My first experiences were with an older and much more experienced guy (later I realised half the gay and bi guys in the area had fucked him). After that I met an 18 year old guy who hadn't bottomed before, we got on really well and were both very keen, I didn't mean to hurt him but as you can imagine when I tried what the other guy had liked on him it wasn't good. Seems obvious now that was stupid, but it wasn't at the time.
 

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Yeah that's bad, there are some a*seholes who get off on trying to shove their cock as hard as they can into a new bottom and hurt him. They're idiotsbut there seem to be quite a few about it seems.

However, it can also happen if it's the top's first time too or he isn't very experienced either. Unfortunately I've been like that too. My first experiences were with an older and much more experienced guy (later I realised half the gay and bi guys in the area had fucked him). After that I met an 18 year old guy who hadn't bottomed before, we got on really well and were both very keen, I didn't mean to hurt him but as you can imagine when I tried what the other guy had liked on him it wasn't good. Seems obvious now that was stupid, but it wasn't at the time.
Just proves that communication between top and bottom is essential!

Even after I became an experienced bottom, I once had a guy with a good size cock just shove it in my ass without any consideration for me at all. I screamed out in pain and threw him out of my house. There's no excuse for that type of behavior (unless of course that was what was mutually desired) and no way was he going to get another chance at my ass!
 

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I think maybe it is different for a female (me anyway). For me anal is about being dominated, knowing the he will be loving it and letting him go wild and crazy on my ass, the thought of being bent over and pounded as hard as he can...

I think this is absolutely true—there is something about surrendering my ass to a huge cock that is totally out-of-this-world! And guys who are well-endowed seem to really appreciate the chance to get inside a tight bottom. It is thrilling to look at their huge erection throbbing as they finger my tiny aperture. It’s like they can’t believe they’re going to fuck something so tight. And then when you feel their fat dickhead pass through your anus and you hear the guy groan with pleasure, you know how much fun he’s having and I forget about the pain because I just want him to have a good time. After his head passes through, feeling my anus tighten around his hard shaft always makes my ass squirm. Sometimes guys pull their dickhead back out and push it back in several times because it feels so good. I’m sure my squeals and cries probably add to the thrill.

If the guy is fairly thick, I can feel every inch of the hard shaft as it moves inside me. Their cock always seems to reach a point where it my inner tissues resist further penetration, and the guy will start fucking harder to move the tissue out of the way. When the hard cock makes it past that point, I really have to struggle to keep my legs from thrashing. That’s when the hard fucking really starts—and I start to scream and my little penis gets so excited that I usually squirt cum all over the sheets long before he empties his load inside me. Afterwards, carrying his sperm inside my ass is such a thrill that my pencil dick stays stiff for hours. Well-hung guys often laugh about that—like it was a swollen clit.
 

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I think this is absolutely true—there is something about surrendering my ass to a huge cock that is totally out-of-this-world! And guys who are well-endowed seem to really appreciate the chance to get inside a tight bottom. It is thrilling to look at their huge erection throbbing as they finger my tiny aperture. It’s like they can’t believe they’re going to fuck something so tight. And then when you feel their fat dickhead pass through your anus and you hear the guy groan with pleasure, you know how much fun he’s having and I forget about the pain because I just want him to have a good time. After his head passes through, feeling my anus tighten around his hard shaft always makes my ass squirm. Sometimes guys pull their dickhead back out and push it back in several times because it feels so good. I’m sure my squeals and cries probably add to the thrill.

If the guy is fairly thick, I can feel every inch of the hard shaft as it moves inside me. Their cock always seems to reach a point where it my inner tissues resist further penetration, and the guy will start fucking harder to move the tissue out of the way. When the hard cock makes it past that point, I really have to struggle to keep my legs from thrashing. That’s when the hard fucking really starts—and I start to scream and my little penis gets so excited that I usually squirt cum all over the sheets long before he empties his load inside me. Afterwards, carrying his sperm inside my ass is such a thrill that my pencil dick stays stiff for hours. Well-hung guys often laugh about that—like it was a swollen clit.

Dude! Very hot story...I totally agree. But I hope you aren't barebacking with lots of guys. Be safe, buddy.
 

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Dude! Very hot story...I totally agree. But I hope you aren't barebacking with lots of guys. Be safe, buddy.

I usually discuss barebacking on the phone before the first date. Most guys want to cum inside me. I have found the home HIV tests to be easy to use and effective. Guys seem to understand that I'm taking a risk without it, so they mind dong it to put me at ease. They also tell me in advance that, if they go to that much trouble, I'd better be ready for a long session of truly hard fucking.
 

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I usually discuss barebacking on the phone before the first date. Most guys want to cum inside me. I have found the home HIV tests to be easy to use and effective. Guys seem to understand that I'm taking a risk without it, so they mind dong it to put me at ease. They also tell me in advance that, if they go to that much trouble, I'd better be ready for a long session of truly hard fucking.

Boy I must be living at the edge of nowhere, but what is this 'home HIV test' and how accurate is it? I hope its more than a fill-in-the-blank survey! LOL
 

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soo.. how do you get your partner/wife to try it?

i'm about to go away to a lovely little cottage for three nights with my wife for our anniversary (5 years). every now and then when we are having sex, i'll play with her sphincter, and even once i put a few fingers up there. She seemed to like it, but i'm not sure. i'd love to try it, how would you suggest I go about suggesting it to her? I mean, i'm keen on just coming straight out and asking..

what do u guys n girls think? she's a petitie/average girl (that is, petite on top but she has hips eg. hourglass type) and i'm about 8-9"

:)