How does anyone do it?!?!

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  1. Eric_8

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    Ladies, and fellas, I need to know:

    1. How an you physically do fisting?
    2. Assuming ^, how is it not earth shatteringly painful.

    Just read a blog about it, and measured my fist out of curiosity. My hands are by no means big, but still measure 10 inches at the thickest point.

    So please, if you can do it, please tell me how you are able to accommodate a fist in there!!
     
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    don't measure your fist. form your hand like a lobster pinch.. measure around the widest part of your hand..

    ya should turn up with something close to 8 inches... you don't punch fuck a woman. fisting requires more finesse.

    i've got jack skellington mitts.. long thin hands.. around the widest part of my hand (lobster pincher) compresses down to just over 6 inches with a lil pressure. figured the flexibility across my knuckles has always been the reason for female partners willingness to experiment.
     
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    good to know, this is an area of sex where I have very minimal experience. By minimal I of course mean none whatsoever.

    Never been overly inclined to try it, and I've never had a girl begging to stick my entire hand inside her!
     
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    I know two women who requested it, love it, and they just have large, flexible vaginas. They had good inner muscle tone and could grip well enough to fuck pleasingly well, and also loosen up to be fisted. I was amazed, and in awe. Total novice at it; but told I gave good hand. It was a humbling experience.

    Even with the "lobster pincer" hand position (my thumb folded and tucked flat against the palm and fingers) my hand is 9.5+ inches in circumference at the knuckles. One of them needed a slow sensual warm up to get to full hand, the other could take it right in. Neither needed/wanted lube. Both were squirters.

    Most women in my experience are not into this, they like fingering best with a few fingers and beyond that they want a cock or a toy.
     
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    I'm not sure there is a "how you do it".My wife delivered two 10 pound babies with no meds.She just looked in my eyes and pushed!The same for fisting, when she wants it,I start with one finger and end with my clenched 12 inch fist inside her.She just seems to relax and open for me.Then she can clench on my dick so hard that it feels like it might get ripped off!I guess you'd have to ask her the what and how of what she does to make this happen.
     
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    last time the guy was sobbing that i was breaking his fingers.
    kegels of doom! be wary of inducing unexpected clenching.
    another part to be wary of is getting past that thumb knuckle.
    but the whole thing is a long, slow, well lubed adventure.

    yes, i'm a glove puppet.
     
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    Yeap, that's where we're stuck (figuratively speaking).

    It's been a lot of fun trying though ;)
     
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    It's Not Easy Being Green.

    Jess Dobkin, performance artist
     
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    oh. my. god.
     
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    Speak for yourself, Mickster.
     
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    never on the fi(r)st date :cool:
     
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    This makes me think of The Muppets for some reason.... Lol. Sorry.

    *Tosses random assortment of dove chocolates with inspiring womangs messages*
     
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    Every Friday is Fist Day at my house!

    And don't forget Taco-Trouncing Tuesdays!
     
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    Supernatural is on hiatus. consider me RSVP'd for next week :biggrin:
     
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    You witty devil! :biggrin1:
     
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    you're so funny i could blow you :smile:
     
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    Been holding back on "A hand in the bird is worth two in the bush."

    Somehow it just doesn't add up? :confused:
     
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    You sir, could win the Nobel Prize for comedy. :biggrin1: Please don't hold back, I'm sure Dolfette wouldn't mind. :wink:
     
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