How Does Being Hung Effect Your Personality

[Jillang]

i'm rather shy myself I don't let many people know cause i don't want jealousy, guys to treat me like meat etc

Shy is better anyway......just my opinion.

 

[alx]

I don't think it does.

I tend to be of the belief that one's personality is in large part, shaped by one's experiences as a child - i.e., below age 10 or so.

At that point in my life I had no concept of whether I was big, small, or average, let alone of the (un)importance of penis size.

Yes I agree, Although I would extend the age limit to mid-teens.

I can say in confidence, well in my case that what happens in childhood/ growing up ultimatley shapes your personality.

My cock has no affect on my personality.

I can't believe being hung DOESN'T affect a guy's confidence. Seems to me it'd have to. We are so penis-obsessed as men that it must have a notable influence on one's psyche, despite what others have said.

I fail to see the correlation between hungness and confidence. My psyche is in my brain not my cock.

When will being hung help you out in a social situation? You can't just flop it out as an ice-breaker, nor can you mention your size.

 

[dcw4]

why do most of the guys bragging here ( the HUNG ones ) dont have pictures??
kind of funny....

 

[Incocknito]

Personality is not affected by penis size.

A person who is cocky seemingly because they have a large penis is not cocky directly because of it. That person is egotistic and possibly narcissistic and those traits are not caused by penis size. The egotism is what drives them to be cocky and brag about their endowment.

All people and their personalities are a result of their environment and the interactions therein. There's a marginal genetic factor.

Penis size does not actually factor into it although in some cases (like the cocky guy with the big dick...or the more common cocky guy with a small dick) it might appear that way.

And people saying things like:

"Hung guys must be having sex all the time"
"A large cock MUST have an affect on a person's confidence"
"Endowed men are all super confident"

Quite obviously know not whereof they speak. I'm guessing most of them don't have a large penis. So they create all these fantasies of what it would be like to have a large penis. The swagger, all the sex, etc.

Which is actually not true.

And even if someone does have a big dick, no one person has had the same life experiences as another. Therefore no two personalities are the same.

So there is every possible combination of hung guy out there. Hung shy, hung cocky, etc.

People are self aware and therefore begin to form personal identities/personalities in childhood, usually around age 5.

People are sexually aware and have some inkling of penis size at mid to late adolescence. So since the formation of personality predates a person's awareness of penis size...it is IMO impossible for penis size to have a bearing on personality.

However, personality can have a bearing on how one perceives their own penis size and how they brag about (or don't) their penis size in social situations.

 

[schwulboy1989]

Thank you! Affect is a verb; effect is a noun... except for a couple of usages!

Are there exceptions to that rule? I'm not saying there aren't, I'm saying I haven't run across any. If you have any examples, I'd love to know them

 

[schwulboy1989]

And people saying things like...Quite obviously know not whereof they speak.

You make valid points. This isn't about that.

This sentence frightened me a little. Kudos for creative avoidance of a preposition at the end of a sentence, though. 10 points

 

[D_Crystallized Ginger]

I think a big penis is a worth for any man because one can feel to be ALWAYS satisfying EVERY woman and this is ALL for anyone who like sex... read well.. SEX not love...love is another issue but if we are speaking about SEX,well no doubt it's very important

 

[B_bxmuscle]

*affect

Affect vs. Effect. My understanding is that "affect" generally means that which influences or shapes something else. It could also refer to behavior, as in a masculine "affect" or to a pretense, such as an "affected" manner of speech.

"Effect" is a result, as in the "effect" of the stimulus policy on unemployment.

In the context which I use it here, either version would be correct but I had in mind the latter when I structured the question, but perhaps your suggestion might be the better option. Thanx.

 

[meatpackingbubba]

More physical and sexual confidence.

 

[D_Harvey Schmeckel]

In the gay world, I think being perceived as hung steered me in the direction of being a top, which has defined my longterm relationships. It does not seem to correlate with social or sexual confidence in my experience, or observations of others. I always thought nerdy shy types tended to have bigger dicks actually. I do have a fair degree of intellectual confidence but any connection to penis size seems awfully farfetched.

 

[luvnlg]

I have to say first off I am happy with my slightly above ave dick. Mine give me pleasure and others seem to enjoy playing with me, or us. I am glad I don't have one that is a job to haul around. When I make a smart ass comment it is me talking and not my dick.
I do spend time at a clothing optional camp and have seen a lot of big dick spend a whole lot of their time trying to get noticed. Sometime I feel badly for these fellows being so caught up in others reactions. I must admit I get a huge grin when a new big dick comes to visit and the pecking (or rather pecker) order is shifted. All the boys work at being plumper than normal but don't want to get fully hard and give the new guy the advantage of turning them on being larger.

 

[gghk]

Of course being hung changes you. As a bottom, knowing that I'll be packing more than quite a few of my lovers always gives me confidence - some tops are just so arrogant about being a 'top' that when they realize the bottom has a bigger cock tone it down a bit...

 

[maxcok]

Since potential parters generally find it a desirable characteristic, all other things being equal, it probably makes for more sexual opportunities and repeat opportunities. All other things being equal. Other than that, no affect. No effect either.

 

[OCMuscleJock]

I do not think you're personality is shaped by one having a larger dick. Most guys really don't know whats larger unless they have been comparing theirs to others all their lives. I know, the first time I had sex, I was constantly thinking, what if she thinks I'm small? What if I'm not enough? What if I don't measure up to her past bf? I think all guys have felt that way at least the first few times when they think cock size is an issue. Personalities are pretty much developed by this point in their lives. NOW, that being said. Once you realize that you're larger, it may enhance the confidence lvl. of a person...but their personality has already been established.

 

[D_76froy]

I'm not sure it has much to do with personality. However, I admit I am very confident in general and never worry about being able to satisfy my partner. On the other hand if you're hung you probably don't get as many women willing to have anal sex with you (that's been my experience), but who's gonna complain about getting all the pussy you could want?

-Ranger

 

[D_Martin van Burden]

I'd have to disagree a little. When I learned I was well-endowed, it helped me across the board with body image and confidence issues. Just seemed like I could better deal with me a lean, skinny dude knowing that I compensated for it in other ways.

 

[the_reverend]

without the ability to look into an alternate reality where i DON'T have a big penis, it's impossible to say...i think i'd be the same weird blend of cocky shyness i've always been. i mean, i've got plenty else going for me. i suppose i'd be less of an exhibitionist, but probably still pretty sexual. i don't know...my personality is the sum of my genetics and experience. to alter my penis size would change both.

 

[bigonepleaser]

I definitely would be more confident...it sucks if you've ever been in the hot seat- especially when drunk female coe-workers/friends start talking about Cock-size. The good thing, they just assume i'm big....Hey, why disappoint them.

 

[sbat]

Because I have a big dick, I don't let being short and skinny make me feel like less of a man when I'm at meat markets. Others seem to pick up on that

 

[TheDanman09]

It defiantly has shaped my personality, in a positive way. But it wasnt always that case.

I started puberty at age nine and then really started growing. Finished with a 9" dick at age 14, so they made me feel like freak with my peers at that time, but then I started having sexual experiences with women and, a few bad experiences aside (some rather hot girls that i really wanted to sleep with flat out refused to when they sighted my dick).
Every single sexual partner in my life has commented on my size. How can something so personal not affect your personality?
Yes I am cocky about it, but not much. Personality and ability to hold a conversation combined with some looks matters more in the real world than dick size.