How Does Being Hung Effect Your Personality

[B_625girth]

it gives me a quiet confidence. I learned from older guys who rightfully or wrongfully bragged about their manhood, that nobody, especially gals, wants to hear about it. and as I matured, dated, and got laid, I got a reputation. I let the others do the talking. sometimes I got laid and used because I am big, but I learned to avoid those situations, and I also used it to my advantage at times.

 

[iluvbigheads]

...interesting stuff. I think there are a few things that impact a hung guy's personality. I have had experiences with several so called hung guys and each one was a different experience. There were a couple who were what I call overly confident - they really did think they were hot stuff because of it. I did not fuel this arrogance with compliments either. There are some who are shy and will ask if they think they are hung.

One thing that impacted their personality, common characteristics was really nothing to do with size at all. Their financial status, their educational status....that key word! status factored in, and for those going about childhood "abuse" in the locker room should also realize it was status that played a role in it all. Anywho, this reminds of a time, a while ago, I met some guy who was hung...I remember him approaching my home, seeing me, seeing my surroundings, the pool, etc. He pulled up in an old Honda civic. I knew that while he had this supposedly big cock, he was also very affected by a couple issues, could barely afford to drive his car, no real stability, no schooling, same age as me etc. All of this came out through the course of our involvement, I learned about his situation over dinner and all this stuff, we "dated" about a 6 week period. He told me he was not good enough for me, after trying to turn things romantic. And I felt this with him. It was as though he viewed himself lower on the scale. He may very have been arrogant to other people or behaved differently around someone of similar status who knows. I think my favorite kinda hung is the hung who really doesn't know he is, but he has a good size. Never really have worry about that ego getting to inflated there.

 

[D_SharronTaint]

It definitely gave me the confidence to try some really stupid shit (hitting on girls with boyfriends bigger than me in High School/College, etc.) growing up.

I'm often told I should get into sales since I'm very commanding and extroverted.

 

[blutrane]

There is an unerring confidence that accompanies a large endowment. I have other things to be confident about, as well as more than a few things to UN-confident about, but it's comforting to have no worries when it comes to whipping it out.

I'm involved with someone right now who has been with someone larger than me, but it doesn't affect anything. She likes that I listen to what her body tells me, which gives me a lot more confidence than my endowment ever could.

 

[Hanger2]

I don't know that it affects my personality. I have known since I was about 10 years old that I am somewhat larger than average. As a teen and young adult I was very shy and withdrawn. As a mature adult I am confident and don't worry much what people think of me.

 

[MrHangman]

There's another topic like 'oh yeah do guys respect hung guys?' and even if some of you guys don't, I think it is an admirable quality to have. So, it would be a big (no pun intended) plus to one's character.

 

[Steinweg9]

Personality and ability to hold a conversation combined with some looks matters more in the real world than dick size.[/QUOTE]


NOT in MY world, they don't. You would be my King.) And I am looking for one!)

 

[basque9]

Assuming that I meet the OP's definition of hung, my reply is that I don't think my personality was as much affected as some of my early life choices. Some of the choices were not fulfilling and so the large penis effect was rather short lived. I lived most of my adult life like any other guy does, tied to a single mate for life. It is only now on LPSG that I am aware once again of being in the state we call hung! It is nice, but in the real world it does not define me. My personality defines me.

 

[basque9]

Affect vs. Effect. My understanding is that "affect" generally means that which influences or shapes something else. It could also refer to behavior, as in a masculine "affect" or to a pretense, such as an "affected" manner of speech.

"Effect" is a result, as in the "effect" of the stimulus policy on unemployment.

In the context which I use it here, either version would be correct but I had in mind the latter when I structured the question, but perhaps your suggestion might be the better option. Thanx.

At first I thought you had committed grammatical error in your opening statement of this thread when you said effect personality. Then I realized that you probably meant effect in the sense of bringing about or causing the personality to evolve or develop. In that sense, effect is a correct verb to use! (Websters New Collegiate Dictionary)

 

[D_Rosalind Mussell]

The answer to this question is as individual as the guy answering it. There's nothing wrong with feeling a bit more confident because you know that you at least have adequate equipment. Unfortunately, this is the be-all-end-all for a lot guys, knowing they are hung and getting so caught up in their own ego that they turn people off. In my experience men who brag a lot usually have little to offer in the bedroom aside from egotistical porn fucking. Two of my best lovers were only 6". Mind-bendingly hot sex that left me practically begging for more and in some cases speechless (no lie). Maybe it's because I'm a woman but I'll never understand why a guy fixates on his penis size when it's his attentiveness and technique that really count in the bedroom.

 

[goodwood]

being hung (and i have never thought i was, but have been told i am..) has never had any part of my definition. i walked through showers and locker rooms and could never understand why guys would always look at my dick/balls.
it never occured to me why people would look at my crotch when i went commando.
i realize now in my old age 'huh...i guess i have some meat flopping around between my legs that shows up and maybe i should be paying attention to that'.
but then i think: 'who the hell cares?! it doesn't matter!'
i never thought i was anything but small until a few years ago when one girlfriend after the next said 'ohhh - that's so big, that's so nice...'
my bad for believing them. lol.
no. being 'hung' has not effected anything for me.

 

[meatpackingbubba]

AFFECT, not effect. And the answer is positively.

 

[LittleDude]

To be honest, I am one "cocky" sonuvabitch. Being well hung does have alot to do with it.

I'm small, and definitely feel inferior to cocky guys like you. Size may not have everything to do with it, but i think it's important.

 

[marriedasian]

in short, it doesn't. at least for me. i'm selective on who needs to know anyways. my personality is based on who i am not how big my cock is. it's a need to know basis.

 

[jockmaestro]

To all you hung guys: is your size a blessing, a curse or a mixed bag? I'm an average-sized dude who greatly admirers big dudes. I've met some hung guys who are very selective about who they let in on the big secret, usually to avoid peeps who just want to use them sexually with no regard for their individuality. Others who exploit their size and the people who are attracted to it in every way possible. Others still who see it as an asset like being exceptionally good-looking, athletic or funny, but not as what defines them. I've always how dudes blessed with big size honestly think about it and about how others respond to it.

No, but it does AFFECT your spelling. ( Sorry. I'm a grammar nerd.)

 

[D_CountdeGrandePinja]

no - it's part of who U R - there are many parts - BUT some think there is only ONE!

 

[jockmaestro]

being hung (and i have never thought i was, but have been told i am..) has never had any part of my definition. i walked through showers and locker rooms and could never understand why guys would always look at my dick/balls.
it never occured to me why people would look at my crotch when i went commando.
i realize now in my old age 'huh...i guess i have some meat flopping around between my legs that shows up and maybe i should be paying attention to that'.
but then i think: 'who the hell cares?! it doesn't matter!'
i never thought i was anything but small until a few years ago when one girlfriend after the next said 'ohhh - that's so big, that's so nice...'
my bad for believing them. lol.
no. being 'hung' has not effected anything for me.

Perhaps it's presumptuous of me, but surely this is disingenuous. How can a hung guy have "no idea" his cock and balls make a difference, both to him and others. You'd have to be pretty clueless not to know that. "Doesn't matter"? this ENTIRE site is proof that it DOES matter to many, many guys, if not all. Of course, hung guys perhaps have the advantage of not having to think about it as much as small-dicked guys. Still, I've never met a man or seen men in locker rooms who don't check out other guys' size. It's part of who we are.

 

[jockmaestro]

At first I thought you had committed grammatical error in your opening statement of this thread when you said effect personality. Then I realized that you probably meant effect in the sense of bringing about or causing the personality to evolve or develop. In that sense, effect is a correct verb to use! (Websters New Collegiate Dictionary)

Forgive me for boring you. He definitely did NOT mean "Effect" (to bring about." He meant "affect," clearly. Small matter on a site about BIG guys, but it's a pet peeve...

 

[basque9]

Forgive me for boring you. He definitely did NOT mean "Effect" (to bring about." He meant "affect," clearly. Small matter on a site about BIG guys, but it's a pet peeve...

Since I am one of those guys, jockmaestro, who did not allow being hung to influence my personality, I remain deferential and bow to your grammatical opinion , taking my usual diplomatic stance. :smile:

 

[oddeyeblu]

there is always an air of confidence that these guys have.... i see it anyway.

I have a good buddy that women throw themselves at because he's good looking and portrays an air of self confidence. But when it comes time to put out, he craters.
He's cursed with a tiny penis.