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I'm a top but I'm curious about it. I wish I could bottom actually but the times I've tried it hurts. Anybody?
I started last year putting stuff in my hole and it still hurts. It is sorta pleasure to me only when I'm laid down on my back masturbating with my legs partially together though. Other than that it's uncomforable. Now, I have to admit that I put the stuff twice a month or something like that.For me it's similar to the pleasure of rubbing my perineum (aka taint - the area between the base of scrotum and anus). This stimulates the prostate gland which is interior to the taint. If you've ever orgasmed from rubbing your taint being penetrated by toy or cock is much the same only more intensely pleasurable. I had prostate orgasms this way a couple decades before I was ever penetrated.
To train your anus not to hurt during penetration get a set of S/M/L butt plugs and a big bottle of water based lube and gently/slowly practice inserting larger sizes until it doesn't hurt anymore. BTW you open your anus by pushing like you're defecating. What allows poop out allows plugs/toys/cock in. Clean yourself out with an enema first. After all it IS a sewer.
Took me over a week of daily practice before I could comfortably fit a L butt plug inside and more days before it became comfortable.
Good luck.
BTW anal orgasm is like 10x more intense than penile stimulation alone
I started last year putting stuff in my hole and it still hurts. It is sorta pleasure to me only when I'm laid down on my back masturbating with my legs partially together though. Other than that it's uncomforable. Now, I have to admit that I put the stuff twice a month or something like that.
How long it took you in total to become a bottom (training your ass)?For me it's similar to the pleasure of rubbing my perineum (aka taint - the area between the base of scrotum and anus). This stimulates the prostate gland which is interior to the taint. If you've ever orgasmed from rubbing your taint being penetrated by toy or cock is much the same only more intensely pleasurable. I had prostate orgasms this way a couple decades before I was ever penetrated.
To train your anus not to hurt during penetration get a set of S/M/L butt plugs and a big bottle of water based lube and gently/slowly practice inserting larger sizes until it doesn't hurt anymore. BTW you open your anus by pushing like you're defecating. What allows poop out allows plugs/toys/cock in. Clean yourself out with an enema first. After all it IS a sewer.
Took me over a week of daily practice before I could comfortably fit a L butt plug inside and more days before it became comfortable.
Good luck.
BTW anal orgasm is like 10x more intense than penile stimulation alone
But I want to enjoy it! It is my fantasy to get penetrated and even I've been craving it later. But it feels uncomfortable still...If you don't do it on a regular basis your butt will tighten up. That' s normal. You have to slowly get used to penetration all over again. Take your time.
Full disclosure. I didn't get any pleasure from anal play/penetration until I was 40. It wasn't for lack of trying when I was young. Eventually I gave up. I don't know why body changed. It takes practice but if you are unable to relax and get pleasure from penetration it could be that it's not for you.
That's okay. There are many bi/gay men who do not enjoy anal play/penetration. Some never.![]()
How long it took you in total to become a bottom (training your ass)?
But I want to enjoy it! It is my fantasy to get penetrated and even I've been craving it later. But it feels uncomfortable still...
How were you able to take the bigger dildos? How long it took you? Or did you get fucked by a real big dick later on? Because right now I am using a very average-sized one (in the skinny end you can say) but I just put it in. I mostly only emulate sex when I'm about to orgasm in and out very fast as if someone was fucking me. It feels so damn good and I get a very strong orgasm. But in order to do this I have to estimulate my penis laid on my back. Otherwise I haven't been able to feel pleasure. When I try on my knees it's NADA. But maybe I just need someone to actually fuck me? Who knows...It felt uncomfortable for me especially when I graduated to a larger size butt plug. I also had average sized dildo to get used to deeper penetration than a plug.
Keep practicing. Use tons of lube--get a lube injector. Relax. Breathe. Take all the time you need.
Once I got used to having my hole stretched--that was the uncomfortable part--the pleasure I felt was amazing.
How were you able to take the bigger dildos? How long it took you? Or did you get fucked by a real big dick later on? Because right now I am using a very average-sized one (in the skinny end you can say) but I just put it in. I mostly only emulate sex when I'm about to orgasm in and out very fast as if someone was fucking me. It feels so damn good and I get a very strong orgasm. But in order to do this I have to estimulate my penis laid on my back. Otherwise I haven't been able to feel pleasure. When I try on my knees it's NADA. But maybe I just need someone to actually fuck me? Who knows...