How does it feel to be naked around friends when you're small?

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From the pictures posted, I does not look like anyone is upset or concerned that one is smaller than the others. Who cares? I mean the people who go around saying just because you have a big dick you are some type of God are idiots. I know lots of guys with big dicks that are morons. It's all about what's between your ears that counts. If you don't get that, you really need to wake up and smell the coffee. Not much you can do if your born with a small/smaller cock. But you can sharpen your mind and excel in other areas.
So quit stressing on your cock size and start getting focused on being in shape/more well read/up to date with current news/ be more confident. That is sexy and makes the man/women. Just my two cents on the subject.
 

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It used to bother me, and I would turn around in the locker room to hide my size. However am know pretty comfortable with it as it is what it is and there is nothing I can do about it. Men who think that penis size is the only thing that makes a man are probably pretty shallow. There is more to a man than penis size and those are the things I prefer to concentrate on
 

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So many comments I agree with... Is there a way to 'like' a whole thread?
Just a few thoughts inspired by everyone who's commented. They're all my opinion, of course:)

Good posture, a flat stomach, and trimming the forest a bit can all make a dick look bigger.
4" soft with huge low-hangers can look smaller than 3" soft propped up by a set of high&tight (that's me).
8" hard on a guy who's 6'4" can look smaller than 6" on a guy who's 5'7" with flat abs and a trimmed forest.
Soft and hard sizes just do NOT have much of a connection.
Position and technique DO affect results. 6" in the right position can do a much better job of hitting the happy button than 8" in the wrong position. "Right" and "wrong" will be different for every guy.

My point? I think gay guys tend to take these things into account a lot more than straight guys when they're noticing a guys equipment so gay guys are actually LESS concerned with what the ruler says.

I notice that nobody's mentioned dick size from the perspective of the person whose face is buried in the crotch of the guy concerned with dick size. So I'll start the ball rolling. This might be TMI for some, lol.
- A guy's taste and smell are WAY more important to me than his size. I've actually told a few guys to get comfy because I'm going to be down there awhile.
- With an anaconda I'm giving thought to breathing and not gagging. This can limit creativity:eek:.
- With a smaller guy I can lose myself in his taste/smell and focus on making him SCREAM and turn into jelly:D.

Last thought: I've had guys who've made me scream with their tongues. Do you seriously think I remember their dick size? Hell fucking no!

I can't be the only guy who feels this way. Any thoughts?
 

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I'm average hard (5.5 x 5), but below average soft. Given that I work out a lot and am generally in the best shape of my friends (with one or two close).

And I can say that I really don't like being nude around friends.

When it is strangers, my attitude is that it is unmanly to hide and cover up if you need to change in the locker room. But with friends, I don't like the idea that they would see that my softie is small and think of me as a "small guy," even if they don't care on the surface.

I know that my friend who was the second best built of our group. Once we were seeing a band and both went to piss. There were no dividers, and the place was packed. he used the one right beside me.l and I couldn't resist glancing. I was surprised to see that his softie was as small as mine.

Since I consider myself small when soft, I admit that since then I think of him as a small guy like me. I know size doesn't really matter for me or him.. But it did change how I thought of my bud--even if that change was that I now see him as a small peer.

The idea of friends who are bigger KNOWING that they are bigger than me really cuts into my masculine pride.

Of course, over time, there have been situations where I was changing / showering at the gym or camping, and I know some friends probably glanced at what I got, like all guys do. So regardless of my own shyness, I'm guess most already know they are hung better.
 
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A big guy who feels his ego boosted by being naked around a small guy is pretty sad imho. Small guys who aren't shy to strip down and display what they have in the locker rooms and the showers are the coolest guys of the locker rooms!
 
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A big guy who feels his ego boosted by being naked around a small guy is pretty sad imho. Small guys who aren't shy to strip down and display what they have in the locker rooms and the showers are the coolest guys of the locker rooms!
Well, I guess that makes me the coolest of the cool! I figured out way back in high school that trying to cover up was a sure give-away that you're bothered about the size of your cock. Doesn't fool anyone.

However, I don't think there's anything wrong about a big guy enjoying being naked around a small guy. I like being better-looking, better built, more athletic, more modest. We all have our pluses and minuses. Nothing wrong with that, as long as you don't get carried away with it.
 

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Honestly, I think most guys (gay or straight) are more interested in your total physique, not just your dick size. Also, for a lot of guys their soft size changes constantly. Mine will go from 2 to 5 and back in less than five minutes.

I agree that trying to cover up your dick just draws attention to it.

I can't speak for women, but from a gay male perspective I can tell you that even if a guy is into you just for your body, he's not going to change his mind because your dick size.

Speaking for myself, I've yet to find a connection between dick size and how much fun I have with a guy.
 
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What he said.....
Honestly, I think most guys (gay or straight) are more interested in your total physique, not just your dick size. Also, for a lot of guys their soft size changes constantly. Mine will go from 2 to 5 and back in less than five minutes.

I agree that trying to cover up your dick just draws attention to it.

I can't speak for women, but from a gay male perspective I can tell you that even if a guy is into you just for your body, he's not going to change his mind because your dick size.

Speaking for myself, I've yet to find a connection between dick size and how much fun I have with a guy.
 

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Hey there,

Have you ever been naked with friends or team mates or any group of guys where it was pretty obvious that you were the smallest?

I hang pretty long when I'm soft and people seem to be impressed. To this end, I love the feeling of being naked with other guys I know - whether in high school sports, in the gym locker room, or now after practice for the soccer team I play on. I love watching other guys react when they see it, but also love the feeling when there are a few of us that hang really long - you can sense a mutual respect or just an undertone of "fuck yeah".

I'm interested in hearing what it's like when you're naked with some guys and everyone has size but you don't. Kind of like the pictures below. Do you get embarrassed/jealous? Has anyone ever said anything or made a reference?

Let me know your stories!

Ghetto was a young man in HS that came from wealthy family (construction) and the family was very. Ed made 100 bucks an hour in HS holding stop sign up during road repairs his dad's company worked on. huge house parents were always away new car every year loads of parties(older brother always bought for us)
Ed had lots of issues...he was going bald at 17, he was an alcoholic and he had the smallest penis I have ever seen. The first time I saw it, we were pissing in the woods and Ed had drop his pants and underwear... The nub was not long enough to control by hand. I laughed and he tried to piss on me.(that little spigot almost 5 meters away.
When Ed got too drunk... He'd start to run his body and dance...this was queue to halt the party, Ed is about strip get everyone at the party to sit and keep the laughter down. He would do his strip tease down to. Nothing...if you try to stop him... He'll do something nobody wants. He didn't care who watched.. He didn't play sports no one would have known... Except that dance...my gf watched it with me...
 
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I think any dude who gets naked with his teammates, fellow students, after PE, whenever, should and usually do get respect from their fellow dudes. I was never the biggest in my younger years and there were some intimidating sizes in the open showers, but those guys never made fun or were openly ridiculing me or other small dudes, I think the act of getting naked should garner at least a little respect and give you confidence too.

Agree 100%. When I see guys in the locker room, I primarily see 2 categories: guys who are comfortable being naked and those that cover up. I feel an immediate sense of respect for the former. Sure, I notice differences in penis size (and various other physical attributes) among the naked guys, but this is secondary. This is how I feel about being naked in the locker room myself--I primarily feel like a guy with the confidence to be naked (which makes me feel proud/manly/one of the guys), who happens to have a small dick (which is not a significant issue for me). I like to think other guys view me the same way.
 

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From the pictures posted, I does not look like anyone is upset or concerned that one is smaller than the others.
Great observation...and it's consistent with the whole point of the thread...being naked among friends. An important part of friendship is that you can expose parts of yourself (in this case literally) without having to feel vulnerable, because they are your friends. I love being naked with my friends and have never felt any embarrassment because I'm smaller than most of them.
 

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It doesn't bother me people make it worse when they bring the attention on themselves when they have a smaller cock show confidence and your good. I'm not hung but I got a sexy girlfriend who loves my cock and she's had bigger but can't get enough of mine.
 
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When I was 18 or 19, it used to make me wonder how much better in bed my more hung were. I figured if I could make the girl cum until she would hyperventilate, the guy could put a girl into the hospital. I found out later when I started dating one of my friend's ex that she never had an orgasm before meeting me. Well hung but not very good with it.

A few months later a group of us went away together and my friend was in the next room over. His ex is a screamer and she was in fine form that weekend. My friend ask if everything was alright. I said sure, why do you ask? He said I heard Jade making a lot of noise. I had no idea what he was talking about. I then realized and said you must be used to that from her. He had a blank look and said why? I said because she was noisy while having sex. He said never with him. I stopped talking...
 
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I'm the small guy here, 5.75. I have a tendency to be embarresed about being naked in front of my big dicked close friends...yet I have no qualms what so ever about being naked regardless of size in front of strangers. I am totally down with it...I have alot of naked situations, nudist recreation, swiming, hiking, Russian/Turkish sweatlodges, etc and I embrace all of those nude situations.

When I do have feelings of insecurities regarding size I just remember and or have gratitude for my great head of hair, great cyclist legs, my formal education, my fat paycheck, and darn it, people like me!