So many comments I agree with... Is there a way to 'like' a whole thread?
Just a few thoughts inspired by everyone who's commented. They're all my opinion, of course
Good posture, a flat stomach, and trimming the forest a bit can all make a dick look bigger.
4" soft with huge low-hangers can look smaller than 3" soft propped up by a set of high&tight (that's me).
8" hard on a guy who's 6'4" can look smaller than 6" on a guy who's 5'7" with flat abs and a trimmed forest.
Soft and hard sizes just do NOT have much of a connection.
Position and technique DO affect results. 6" in the right position can do a much better job of hitting the happy button than 8" in the wrong position. "Right" and "wrong" will be different for every guy.
My point? I think gay guys tend to take these things into account a lot more than straight guys when they're noticing a guys equipment so gay guys are actually LESS concerned with what the ruler says.
I notice that nobody's mentioned dick size from the perspective of the person whose face is buried in the crotch of the guy concerned with dick size. So I'll start the ball rolling. This might be TMI for some, lol.
- A guy's taste and smell are WAY more important to me than his size. I've actually told a few guys to get comfy because I'm going to be down there awhile.
- With an anaconda I'm giving thought to breathing and not gagging. This can limit creativity

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- With a smaller guy I can lose myself in his taste/smell and focus on making him SCREAM and turn into jelly

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Last thought: I've had guys who've made me scream with their tongues. Do you seriously think I remember their dick size? Hell fucking no!
I can't be the only guy who feels this way. Any thoughts?