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Is it a special turn-on to initiate a virgin? What is the attraction?I’ve opened up a few virgin holes.
It was no game - we emailed for quite a while before it happened. He had a well thought-out procedure for taking an anal virginity. He explained all the details, how I would probably react, etc. I knew from the moment we met where the foreplay was leading. He prepared me well for what had to be done. When he eased me onto my back and put the pillows under my hips I knew without a doubt that not "just the tip" was going in, but he would be balls deep when his sperm spilled freely into my bowels.It’s usually a game of "just the tip" until I’m balls deep
Why not super thick and hugely long?! Even better that way!!!A thick cock is much better than a long cock.
Is it a special turn-on to initiate a virgin? What is the attraction?
The guy who popped my ass cherry got some thrill just from knowing he was first and I would always remember it, but it was also a turn-on seeing my response as he did me.
It was no game - we emailed for quite a while before it happened. He had a well thought-out procedure for taking an anal virginity. He explained all the details, how I would probably react, etc. I knew from the moment we met where the foreplay was leading. He prepared me well for what had to be done. When he eased me onto my back and put the pillows under my hips I knew without a doubt that not "just the tip" was going in, but he would be balls deep when his sperm spilled freely into my bowels.
Do you have a particular technique or procedure for virgins (foreplay, position, lube, condom/bare, duration, etc)?
How much discomfort or pain do you think a typical virgin experiences when he gets popped and split by you?
That is true!Part of my attraction to virgins is that, no matter what, they won’t ever forget the first time they got popped and split open.
My partner was thicker than most guys but not enormously so. He made it clear that it would probably hurt at first and, if it seemed too much for me, he would finish quickly . . . but once inside, I would be fucked until he finished. Getting my sphincter popped was a short, sharp stab - a little more intense than I expected but quite bearable. And, in a strange way, rather satisfying to know that I was getting fucked and giving pleasure to my partner.. Once my muscle ring was breached he paused a moment, then pushed firmly to full depth in one controlled stroke. That was a different kind of ache, and it brought tears to my eyes. Looking back, I realize that I tensed up inside in reaction to getting popped and his cock was, in fact, splitting my rectum open. He saw me cry a little but continued to take his pleasure, and I'm pleased that he did.Some discomfort is natural when taking a cock of my girth, but so is pleasure and I aim to pleasure my partner as deeply and frequently as possible in a session.
My partner did an excellent job of preparing me. He told me beforehand that I would be kissed - and I thought that would be the worst part of the experience. In fact, it was very enjoyable and erotic. He kissed me long and deep just before the insertion. I could feel his cock head brushing against my pucker, and knew what it was going to do. He didn't start the insertion until I relaxed a little from the deep kiss.My technique includes plenty of foreplay with tongue, fingers, toys and then tons of lube (silicone) when pressing my cockhead on the hole.
I'd like to get it in a spoon position but never have. I got popped and split in missionary position. "The same way" he reminded me "that most girls get their hymens broke and pussies split for the very first time.". There were some folded pillows under my hips, which lifted my hole into a position that felt very exposed and very vulnerable. When he broke the kiss and started the penetration he pinned my body under his so he had complete control and I couldn't squirm away. There was no doubt in my mind that I was being "taken" and had no choice but to surrender to the violation.The approach is important, too. I find a spooning position is a good starting place for virgins (and an easy transition from frottage to penetration).
He stroked pretty much the full length of his cock. It was a new and unique sensation to feel him sliding all the way in and out. He said I was especially tight, and he orgasmed sooner than he intended. It was just starting to feel good when he thrust deep (Ouch!, again.) and pressed his body against me. At first I didn't realize he was cumming but feeling his cock twitch deep inside made it clear. Instinctively, I wrapped arms and legs around him and clutched him to me - an action that was quite surprising to me.For the first time, I focus more on short thrusts to massage the prostate and focus less on long strokes.
I don't know about breeding instincts or marking territory but he told me beforehand that I would be fucked by a bare cock and it would inseminate me. I wouldn't have counted it as a real defloration if the cock wasn't bare and the seed wasn't planted inside my rectum.Lastly, I always take a virgin ass bare to mark my territory. I love seeing my load seeping out of a freshly fucked hole. Call it breeding instinct.
@WilliamG I can definitely relate. My butt plug is just under 2.5” wide and I absolutely crave the stretched full feeling.Toy user here. Thick is amazing.
@ThickkD damn I wish you were in Florida, I would love to get my virgin hole worked on by that cock.View attachment 1123682 I’ll break your hole in
What's the point of doing it if it doesn't hurt. The hurting feels goodI guess by the screams it kinda hurts.
I sort of disagree. The hurting does not feel good - it hurts! But it provides a kind of satisfaction, and the overall experience of getting fucked in your ass is not the same if it doesn't hurt at least a little.What's the point of doing it if it doesn't hurt. The hurting feels good
I sort of disagree. The hurting does not feel good - it hurts! But it provides a kind of satisfaction, and the overall experience of getting fucked in your ass is not the same if it doesn't hurt at least a little.
I take it like a woman - on my back, thighs open and legs up. Maybe a pillow or two to elevate my opening and make an easier entrance angle. In that position I am acutely aware that my most personal and intimate opening is very exposed and vulnerable. I am offering it for my partner's pleasure. I know that it will hurt when he takes that pleasure. I expect it to hurt when the cock breaks through my sphincter - at least a grunt or whimper, possibly a vocal "OUCH!!" or even a yelp. It may also hurt when his cock expands my rectum as he completes the insertion to full depth. If it hurts enough to make me squeal or scream, the encounter ends right there.
But that momentary hurt of popping through my sphincter tells me that he has accepted my invitation and I have been taken. He will use my body like he uses a woman's body. Getting popped flips a mental switch. I change from watching the cock approach, knowing what it must do but fearful that I will not be able to take it; to using my body and my skills to satisfy my partner. The momentary hurt tells me I am man enough to receive his erection, tolerate the pain, and satisfy his lust.