How does it feel to have anal sex with a thick cock?

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Is it a special turn-on to initiate a virgin? What is the attraction?

The guy who popped my ass cherry got some thrill just from knowing he was first and I would always remember it, but it was also a turn-on seeing my response as he did me.


It was no game - we emailed for quite a while before it happened. He had a well thought-out procedure for taking an anal virginity. He explained all the details, how I would probably react, etc. I knew from the moment we met where the foreplay was leading. He prepared me well for what had to be done. When he eased me onto my back and put the pillows under my hips I knew without a doubt that not "just the tip" was going in, but he would be balls deep when his sperm spilled freely into my bowels.

Do you have a particular technique or procedure for virgins (foreplay, position, lube, condom/bare, duration, etc)?

How much discomfort or pain do you think a typical virgin experiences when he gets popped and split by you?
"just the tip" is the first great challange, the first step, every bottom knows: there is no return...no matter how much it hurts,
e real top will go deeper, hold still the first moment wenn he entered the head , than slow, but envenly entering, no matter the bottom is whining or complaning.
doing what had to be done...
 

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"just the tip" is the first great challange, the first step, every bottom knows: there is no return...no matter how much it hurts,
e real top will go deeper, hold still the first moment wenn he entered the head , than slow, but envenly entering, no matter the bottom is whining or complaning.
doing what had to be done...

Wow, that sounds hot. Wish I could feel what you just said. Are you a top.
 
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Exactly. No reason not to practice with a nice big dildo. No reason to be a "complete virgin".
In my experience, toys have always hurt. Even after I got them inside, they were far less satisfying than a real cock. I am very pleased that a real, bare, cock was the first thing to fuck my ass.
 

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I think being stretched and filled by a thick cock is amazing. My regular buddy is thick and i wouldn't have it any other way!
The thicker it is, the more skilled the top has to be, to prevent it from becoming "hurts too much". I expect it to hurt at least a little, but I am NOT into pain.

"Ouch!" is OK for the initial insertion. (In fact, I will probably say, "Ouch!", then "OUCH!!", then "It HURTS!" after he breaks through but my anal muscles are in spasm, not yet accustomed to having the cock inside me.
 

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"just the tip" is the first great challange, the first step, every bottom knows: there is no return...no matter how much it hurts,
I never played "just the tip". When I gave up my ass cherry, both me and the top knew I expected to be fucked before we met. I knew beforehand that once he started serious ass-play, it probably would not stop until he had finished inside me. I guess the final "point of no return" was when he positioned me, on my back with thighs open and knees bent. He had already rimmed and fingered me and worked lube into me. He crawled up along my body and pinned my body under his. That's when I knew, "I am going to be fucked by a man and inseminated with his sperm."

Then he kissed me. A long, deep kiss. I could feel his cock brushing against my pucker and I knew what it was going to do. But he kept kissing until I relaxed a little, then he started probing my hole and finally he pressed his cock firmly against my anus. As he increased the pressure, the discomfort also increased. I think I said "Ouch!" . . . . then "OUCH!!".

a real top will go deeper, hold still the first moment wenn he entered the head , than slow, but envenly entering, no matter the bottom is whining or complaning.
Yes, he was very controlled and deliberate as his erection urged my sphincter to yield. I don't think anybody automatically opens up on their very first time, which is one reason you feel the jab of pain when the cock pops through.

My anal muscles went into painful spasms when his cock broke through. He held both himself and my body in position, not moving. I know I tried to writhe away from the cock violating me, be his body held me down. My face scrunched up in a grimace, my legs kicked, and my hands clawed the sheets. I moaned in discomfort, and said "It HURTS!" but he didn't say or do anything. (Afterward he told me that almost every virgin says the same thing: "Ouch!", "OUCH!!", "It HURTS!".)

I was still spasming a little when he completed the insertion to full depth. For the next inch or two it felt strange - pleasurably strange - to fell something going the wrong way through my anus and sphincter. Then it started to hurt, not at the sphincter but deep inside me. Before he was all the way in I was crying . He never spoke or let up - just continued to take what he came for.
 

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In my experience, toys have always hurt. Even after I got them inside, they were far less satisfying than a real cock. I am very pleased that a real, bare, cock was the first thing to fuck my ass.
i don't use toys by myself- it is no pleasure for me to feel a dead stick in me...
but i enjoy plugs and smooth dildos when a top uses them to get me loose, to get me ready, my anus soft smooth and willing
 

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The thicker it is, the more skilled the top has to be, to prevent it from becoming "hurts too much". I expect it to hurt at least a little, but I am NOT into pain.

"Ouch!" is OK for the initial insertion. (In fact, I will probably say, "Ouch!", then "OUCH!!", then "It HURTS!" after he breaks through but my anal muscles are in spasm, not yet accustomed to having the cock inside me.

you are 100 % right - i am not painhorny- not a bit
but in my role, my purpose, my mission to give HIM pleasure
it is absolute o.k. that it is not so comfortable...

i also mean there are three kinds ouches-
the first caused by thickness and girth
the second by length
the third by time and his stamnia and endurance
 
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i also mean there are three kinds ouches-
the first caused by thickness and girth
the second by length
the third by time and his stamnia and endurance
Sounds like you have done some research!

The initial stab depends on how much the sphincter is forced to open. There is also a stretching sensation in the anus.

The length is what brought tears to my eyes - and he wasn't especially long.

After fucking for a while I feel rawness and a burning sensation. Adding lube relieves the discomfort for only a short time.
 
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It's both an experience of fear and then enjoyable when you loosen up, relax, take his thickness and he goes balls deep. In my younger years I was terrified of my friend's thick cock when he stuck it in. I told him, "Pull it out, pull it out." Fast forward 20 years and I enjoy his thick cock as he slowly inserts his length. Wow, it's so exciting. I do feel full but it's so nice. I drip cum when he's stroking his dick with lube getting ready to do me. Nice, nice, nice...
 
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Sounds like you have done some research!

The initial stab depends on how much the sphincter is forced to open. There is also a stretching sensation in the anus.

The length is what brought tears to my eyes - and he wasn't especially long.

After fucking for a while I feel rawness and a burning sensation. Adding lube relieves the discomfort for only a short time.


hi, the best research is listening to you ;-)
i thought the stinging pain by the initial stab depends on the thickness of the glans (and the clenching in bottoms mind)
and some tops say the stay a little while only with the head behind the sphincter, waiting for bottoms relaxation ?!
the pain caused by the lenght should be no problem with small- or medium sized, becaus the rectum is ab about 5-6 inch in average ?
 
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Sounds like you have done some research!

The initial stab depends on how much the sphincter is forced to open. There is also a stretching sensation in the anus.

The length is what brought tears to my eyes - and he wasn't especially long.

After fucking for a while I feel rawness and a burning sensation. Adding lube relieves the discomfort for only a short time.
ps. what means fucking "for a while" when you get burned ? 20 min or hours ;-) ?
 
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It's both an experience of fear and then enjoyable when you loosen up, relax, take his thickness and he goes balls deep. In my younger years I was terrified of my friend's thick cock when he stuck it in. I told him, "Pull it out, pull it out." Fast forward 20 years and I enjoy his thick cock as he slowly inserts his length. Wow, it's so exciting. I do feel full but it's so nice. I drip cum when he's stroking his dick with lube getting ready to do me. Nice, nice, nice...


20 year "preparing", 20 years foreplay... sounds great
so it is 20 years every time almost like the first time ;-) ?
great top when he goes slowly first, inserting balldeep, full length...
and yes feeling "full" , stuffend, filled out is the all-important wish, the great desire for every real bottom ;-) !?