how does prostate stimulation feel to you?

[lpsg17]

My urologist, who is bi, makes certain I enjoy my prostate exams. I have them twice a year now, since undergoing brachytherapy for Stage I prostate cancer. Prostate cancer is no longer a problem and I still have a working prostate gland. But now I need a digital check twice a year to check if it's beginning to enlarge (something that happens to most men, prostate cancer or not).

The only problem I have with prostate stimulation is when I DON'T have an erection. So, I work up a semi hard on before The Good Doctor inserts two to three gloved and well-lubed fingers up my ass. He never spends more than 30 seconds to a minute mushing my prostate around which always causes me to produce a partial if not full load, sans orgasm.

If my dick isn't semi hard, the ejaculate tends to clog up in my urethra, making taking a piss later a bit of a challenge (not painful, just messy). With a semi hard on any ejaculate that is produced easily escapes my dick into a handful of tissues I've wrapped around the head of my dick for just that purpose.

I consider myself lucky. Having a bisexual urologist has improved my knowledge of exactly where and how to best stimulate a partner's prostate when fucking, during foreplay, or when my jaw is tired of sucking someone off and I just want them to finally cum.

But I can fully relate to having the sensation that I have to pee during and after a digital exam. I just wish my urologist would let me return the favor. He's a hot DILF in his late 40s who would make a perfect model for that brand of men's shirts where they guy is always wearing an eyepatch. Tasty.

I think i need to go to your doctor!

 

[davidjh7]

I'm like you. I truly believe I am wired wrong for a gay male. I have tried various ways to get some level of pleasureable stimulation to my prostate, but it just isn't happening. This is one reason for me that bottoming is a "beige I think I'll paint the ceiling beige" kind of experience, physically. If I am really into the guy, it is an emotionally fullfilling experience, however. I really need to talk to the maker about getting an upgrade---my hardware/software is obviously flawed...:biggrin1:

See thats what I don't understand, some men say that the pleasure is too much or very intense. We've try different positions and the pleasure never seems to feel the way that other people describe it. Is there any way that I can be doing it wrong, like I said I've tried different positions and even used a rudeboy but the pleasure never seems to be intense enough.

 

[blooeyz]

I love it when I cum, it's the best
just playing with it without jackin doesn't do anything for me

 

[B_jeepguy2]

I love it. The first time i got fucked I shot so hard I hit the wall behind the bed.

 

[Jean Deaux]

I used to have a really good massage therapist who, after he got to know me, kept adding little treats to his massage endings. He worked up to a regular prostate massage and it certainly added a lot to the experience. Like one of the posters above, it did make me feel like a million dollars.
He has since relocated and none of the other guys or women I have used are anywhere nearly as good as he was.

 

[deleted3782]

I had a prostate exam yesterday...and I was reminded how unpleasurable the whole thing feels. Not bad enough to avoid getting an exam...its important to get that thing checked...but as far as prostate stimulation feeling pleasurable and/or sexy? Forget it.

 

[blondetwink11]

I would have to agree with ewa123. I'm the bottom in my relationship and I do enjoy when we have sex but I think others get more pleasure from it than I do. I want it to be an explosive feeling but it dosen't ever seem that pleasurable to me. I even bought a rudeboy prostate massager and that dosen't do much for me. Am I broken?

I expected it to be explosive, and almost instant. I mean, they call it the male g-spot (and from my limited aka total lack of sexual experience with woman my understanding was you hit it once and and orgasm occurs) I digress, you need to get horny first, super turned on, and then apply a little pressure on the forward was of your anus. Just keep going. I thought I was broken too but not so sure now! :biggrin1:

 

[Boobalaa]

It's like the biggest surprise you never could imagined in your wildest dreams could actually be experienced and it was with you the whole time..!! My first time experience..I saw stars during a full body orgasm spasm, during what felt like a never ending ejaculation..yeah..I concur..it felt like a buzz

 

[buster6969]

when mines being massaged and worked i just dribble like no tommorrow ,,,,when i come i just shake and just pour out come

 

[Fire Agate]

uhh it feels pretty good. i can almost make myself cum hard if i play with it

 

[D_Alec_Baldtwins]

What goes through my mind is, the only thing worse than the doctor doing this is his bill.

 

[bigbrisguy]

Seems you either love it or hate it. I fuckin love it, makes me feel like I need to urinate, but gives me the most intense orgasm. Makes me feel incredibly helpless too, like I should be trying to move or get out from under it, but I cant