- Joined
- Aug 23, 2008
- Posts
- 159
- Media
- 0
- Likes
- 264
- Points
- 293
- Location
- Missouri (United States)
- Sexuality
- 100% Straight, 0% Gay
First of all, a comment: I first started visiting this site quite a long time, but nowadays I find this AaW section the place where I repeatedly come to. The ladies here are very helpful for the legit questions, and hilarious when they slap down the other crap. Much of the other stuff is very tiring.
I'm wondering, how does your libido change with your monthly cycle? And, has that changed over time (with age)?
I've been with my So for nearly 20 years and our sex life has always been very very good. My libido has always exceeded hers, but I think that is not unusual. At 40, I still have the sex drive of a 16 year old.
Over time, I have noticed that she has a time of the month where she's hot for sex with a drive that matches mine : typically about 4-5 days during ovulation time. Those are happy days. However, we don't have much sex during her period (for obvious reasons). This is expected. Now, the week before her period I have started to refer to as 'I hate you week' where her mood towards me is pretty much 'I hate you' and sex is absolutely the last thing on her mind. This has become more pronounced over time (or, it's taken me 17 years to figure it out). The other days of the month are less hot/cold and we will have sex once a day or every other day. Two weeks out of four, it's basically off limits.
Does this happen for anyone else?
The next part of the question is: are your orgasms different, during different times of the month? This week, is "I hate you week". Sex is pretty much off the table. However, last night, she knew I was very ready to go and after having some drinks we watched some porn. This got her pretty hot as there are certain videos she really likes. she ended up having a toe curling orgasm during sex. This morning, I woke her up with my tongue on her clit and she had a rocking orgasm again. It seems both orgasms were more intense than 'normal'. I wondered if they were any different because of the time of the month (not a horny time, but once it gets started it turns out well).
When I asked her about the difference, she said "don't overthink it" and went to sleep. Lol. Overthink is sort of what I do.
BTW, having sex at all during "I hate you week" is extremely rare. Twice in a day during this time has probably never happened. Maybe that's why I'm thinking about it so much.
Thoughts?
I'm wondering, how does your libido change with your monthly cycle? And, has that changed over time (with age)?
I've been with my So for nearly 20 years and our sex life has always been very very good. My libido has always exceeded hers, but I think that is not unusual. At 40, I still have the sex drive of a 16 year old.
Over time, I have noticed that she has a time of the month where she's hot for sex with a drive that matches mine : typically about 4-5 days during ovulation time. Those are happy days. However, we don't have much sex during her period (for obvious reasons). This is expected. Now, the week before her period I have started to refer to as 'I hate you week' where her mood towards me is pretty much 'I hate you' and sex is absolutely the last thing on her mind. This has become more pronounced over time (or, it's taken me 17 years to figure it out). The other days of the month are less hot/cold and we will have sex once a day or every other day. Two weeks out of four, it's basically off limits.
Does this happen for anyone else?
The next part of the question is: are your orgasms different, during different times of the month? This week, is "I hate you week". Sex is pretty much off the table. However, last night, she knew I was very ready to go and after having some drinks we watched some porn. This got her pretty hot as there are certain videos she really likes. she ended up having a toe curling orgasm during sex. This morning, I woke her up with my tongue on her clit and she had a rocking orgasm again. It seems both orgasms were more intense than 'normal'. I wondered if they were any different because of the time of the month (not a horny time, but once it gets started it turns out well).
When I asked her about the difference, she said "don't overthink it" and went to sleep. Lol. Overthink is sort of what I do.
BTW, having sex at all during "I hate you week" is extremely rare. Twice in a day during this time has probably never happened. Maybe that's why I'm thinking about it so much.
Thoughts?