How far do you go on a first date

Huey501

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Hi Ladies, generally what is your position of sex or a BJ on the first date with a guy, do you have a general rule that's says you'll only go so far on a first date no matter how much you click or are turned on, or do you play it by ear?

Additionally I've had a couple of exes who will have sex before giving a BJ, both said that a BJ is much more intimate and they would only do it after knowing a guy fairly well, where a sex is more impersonal. I cam understand that to an extent, but was curious to hear the views of a wider audience.
 

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I don't have a rule. I normally go into dates saying "no sex", but things can change if there's a serious connection.

As for the BJ being more intimate than sex view, its pretty common. I can't say I've never given a BJ before having sex for the first time, but its rare. I know plenty of guys that won't go down on girls the first time either.
 

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If it's a legitimate date, I do have a rule and it's served me well. Absolutely nothing beyond a good night kiss. If he's worth a second date, he's worth whatever might happen afterwards. But he has to wait until a repeat viewing. :)