I've always enjoyed meeting and truly getting to know new people. From time to time, you meet people who aren't exactly as confident and comfortable with themselves as they may seem in the beginning. Hell, they may tell you that they share a common interest with you, in which they don't. I've even known straight men to flirt and pursue gay men just for some sort of acceptance. At some point the truth comes out, and it's stated that they only wanted the attention. I understand that no one wants to be rejected, but whatever happened to "just be yourself?" Anyone else experience this and get annoyed as hell? I know that we should all try to be sympathetic and understanding to others, but to what extent? Is it understandable to feel betrayed because erroneous information was provided? Thoughts?