areola
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It's just another example of the complexity of sexuality.
To go all psychology 101 for a minute it does seem, at first glance, understandable that you could have transformed your own desire for a large penis into a desire for one. That said I find it curious that you've set very definite limits on your fantasy (no touching etc.) but want to perform oral which seems quite advanced to me. I could well imagine how, if you did have "penis envy", that you would want to feel the size and weight of a large penis in your hand as if it were your own but performing oral sex on someone is very much in a different category to my mind. But when were these things ever rational?
If I were you I'd contemplate "why oral?" first. If you still want to try I'd make sure you were completely upfront with the guy - you could easy decided that the reality is very different from your fantasy. Maybe suggest some mutual J/O with the possibility of you sucking him to keep expectations low. Lastly, and talking of low expectations, from my (gay) experience, men with huge cocks are much in demand and many men don't want to waste their time on "curious" guys.
To go all psychology 101 for a minute it does seem, at first glance, understandable that you could have transformed your own desire for a large penis into a desire for one. That said I find it curious that you've set very definite limits on your fantasy (no touching etc.) but want to perform oral which seems quite advanced to me. I could well imagine how, if you did have "penis envy", that you would want to feel the size and weight of a large penis in your hand as if it were your own but performing oral sex on someone is very much in a different category to my mind. But when were these things ever rational?
If I were you I'd contemplate "why oral?" first. If you still want to try I'd make sure you were completely upfront with the guy - you could easy decided that the reality is very different from your fantasy. Maybe suggest some mutual J/O with the possibility of you sucking him to keep expectations low. Lastly, and talking of low expectations, from my (gay) experience, men with huge cocks are much in demand and many men don't want to waste their time on "curious" guys.