Maybe this has been debated before, but real life experiences I believe can be a valid proof to whether who we are attracted to is related to our genes or not.
In my opinion, I think there is not one valid truth to this.
For some it is genetic, for others it was based on certain circumstances; many stories can be told why someone knew he was gay, just straight, or discovered his bi-side later on.
Especially when you come to analyze gay life and how gay couples interact and what does each person enjoy and what not, it is much broader in scale than sex between a man and a woman.
The way I see it however that s person can inherit from his parents or through his genetic pool from his grandparents/ancestors some kind of attraction.
It is like the child who likes eating the same food like their parents ( I am generalizing and just saying my thoughts out loud).
I always wondered why would I ever enjoy exactly the same foods my dad does, but not my Mother's.
And why would my brother's son hold a pencil exactly like his dad; it drives me crazy thinking too much about it.
I think so about attraction; you may not immediately want to have an orgasm with someone, but you can feel some kind of bonding, your mind thinking and fantasizing about it. I think in some of us, it is deeply connected to our genes and maybe depending on our situations, and our experiences, maybe reading about it, trying it, experimenting... these genes get triggered and turned on.
Your thoughts?
In my opinion, I think there is not one valid truth to this.
For some it is genetic, for others it was based on certain circumstances; many stories can be told why someone knew he was gay, just straight, or discovered his bi-side later on.
Especially when you come to analyze gay life and how gay couples interact and what does each person enjoy and what not, it is much broader in scale than sex between a man and a woman.
The way I see it however that s person can inherit from his parents or through his genetic pool from his grandparents/ancestors some kind of attraction.
It is like the child who likes eating the same food like their parents ( I am generalizing and just saying my thoughts out loud).
I always wondered why would I ever enjoy exactly the same foods my dad does, but not my Mother's.
And why would my brother's son hold a pencil exactly like his dad; it drives me crazy thinking too much about it.
I think so about attraction; you may not immediately want to have an orgasm with someone, but you can feel some kind of bonding, your mind thinking and fantasizing about it. I think in some of us, it is deeply connected to our genes and maybe depending on our situations, and our experiences, maybe reading about it, trying it, experimenting... these genes get triggered and turned on.
Your thoughts?