How good are women at detecting size--say through office clothes, loose shorts, etc? Does it show even if the clothing isn't tight? I'm well above average and was completely oblivious to bulges until recently. Now I find myself trying to hide my size (fearing I'll look like a braggart). Once more: is it naturally easy for a female to size a dude up (like a guy checking out a woman's breast size)? Is the size up done from a distance? Is it the first thing they look at? I's gots to know.