Ok heres the deal, I bought a surf board that this dude had advertised on Craigslist. I drive over to the seller's apartment the other night to pick it up and the dude is late 20s and HOT. Anyway I pay him for the longboard and put it on the roof of my Jeep and we are standing in the stairwell of his building as I am about to leave and we get to chatting about surfing, where we went to college, work and stuff like that. While we are chatting he stretches a couple of times exposing his abs, and the waistband of his underwear showing above his jeans(white hanes briefs or boxerbriefs with gray waistband). He did this several times and I am pretty damn sure he had to have noticed me looking...because as soon as he stretched I realized that my eyes had drifted down to his stomach. LOL Some of the dude's mannerisims really made me think he could possibly be gay. While he was definately a masculine guy he cared a lot about his appearance. So we had chatted for a few minutes and he asks if I want to come up to his apartment and have a drink. At first I said no thanks, then we chatted a while longer and he asks me again "are you sure you don't want to come up and get a drink before you leave." By now I am thinking this dude has more in mind than having a drink with me, and he is HOT so I said sure. So we walk up to his apartment and he fixes me a drink and we stand there and chat in his kitchen. He tells me his roomate is a chick so I ask how it is having a female roomate since I have always roomed with guys and he said "way too much drama." He also said she is always bringing dudes over and wants him to leave so they can go at it. I asked him if he makes her leave when he brings girls back and he said, "Well that is not really an issue because there are no girls around here anyway, I meet most of my girls while I am on business travel." He had told me where he works and what he does and I doubt he travels much in that job. So apparently he does not have a gf and never gets laid...at least while he is at home. The whole time I thinking YEAH RIGHT this dude is soooo GAY! I was really expecting him to make a move, but he never did, not sure whether he was waiting for me to or not. Anyway we finally shook hands, I thanked him and left What do you guys think am I reading way too much into this? Was this dude just a really nice hot looking straight guy who had no interest in fooling around...or was this dude a closet case who was wanting to fool around and just couldn't get up the nerve to make a move because he thought I was a straight guy...or was he hoping I was going to make one? What do you dudes think? I still have the dude's email and phone numbers, and I told him we should meet up and go surfing together sometime next summer, and he said that would be cool and that he was going to add me to his address book. I would call him and see if he wants meet for coffee or a beer but since he lives damn near an hours drive from me that would be pretty obvious.