I've been proped by a couple of older women in the past. Keep in mind that I'm only out to a few select people. The first one was the older sister of a friend. She was like 60 and I was like 37. She was drunk and I wasn't drunk enough nor did I have any desire to have straight sex. The other one was just a couple of months age. This one thinks she is so sexy that no man could ever turn her down. I had know her late husband before she met him and that's how I know this woman. After Frick, not a real name, passed away I listened to her problems and she turned to me for advice on a few matters. Turns out that she was afraid to stay alone at night and asked me to move in so she wouldn't be afraid. I told her I'd think about it but if I did it would be as friends and nothing more. She agreed. I decided not to move in and she seemed ok with my decision. She tried on numerous occasions to get me to spend the night, so I wouldn't have to drive home so late. Of course I declined and thought everything was fine. I thought this woman was a friend, very, very wrong answer. This fucking bitch has been going around telling people (read mutual friends) that I wanted more out of the relationship than just to be friends and that I had been begging her to let me move in with her. She also told them that I was head over heels in love with her. Well some of these mutual friends know the truth and just about feel out in the floor laughing when she told them the lies. So I'd say she didn't take rejection very well. I don't have anything to do with her any more. I did , however, have lunch with her youngest daughter last week and she told me that she and her siblings had wondered how long it would take for me to figure out that she was a compulsive liar and a user (user of people). Now I might not be the sharpest knife in the drawer but this woman was a few bricks shy of a full load.
As for how hard it is for me to say, not a problem. If I don't want to do something, I'll tell you "NO" in a New York minute.