how has lpsg affected your perception?

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  1. kc2007

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    I was wondering from a ladies perspective on how being on this site has affected your day to day perception of guys, dicks, and sexuality in general.
    Most guys (more so even with gay guys) have measured, compared, and searched the internet for information on penis size so we all had a pretty good idea where we sized up before this site. I mean gay or not, guys have been comparing their dicks since puberty. So unless you are a guy who lived a very sheltered life, seeing big cocks and knowing some guys are much bigger than others won't come as a shock.
    ....But for ladies, I imagine it's different. So has visiting this site and seeing all these big cocks make your hornier than you were before. Or, does it make you think more about the guys you meet in everyday life and wondering about their cock...is it big or really big??? Do you still think big cocks are rare or wonder why you haven't encountered any in your past sexual experiences.
    Or is site nothing more than a way to past the time and it doesn't effect your life or thoughts one way or another.
    Any and all thoughts are welcome.
     
  2. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    All of the above.

    LPSG: Getting my husband laid a lot since October 2007.
     
  3. kc2007

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    good for you guys m.r...and thanks for the reply but i was hoping for more of your unique intelligent female perspective and not just a confirmation of my simpleton male perspective...but no worries!!
     
  4. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Ok ok...i was distracted with dinner there. Let me see if i can pull something out of my hat here.

    Before LPSG....i never thought much about cock size or "package watching" before. I mean, i think we all wondered about a guy we were thinking about sexually but now i mentally question practically any male i see.

    We had sex maybe once a month at best, now we have it 2 to 4 times a week regularly. Our busy schedules make it difficult to have the energy and time to have sex much, but i wake him up in the middle of the night often.

    We never would have dreamed of making amateur vids. Hell i didnt even know about webcams and all of that. And then i heard about xtube after finding this place. I was paying for internet porn before! I had posed for my husband a couple of times for pictures but i didn't think i'd be comfortable or ideal behind a professional lens.

    I think big cocks are more common than i thought. I also had no idea so many men were larger than my husband. He's relatively short for lpsg standards but above normal lpsg girth.

    It has also made me think a lot about my sexuality in general.
     
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    I would think lots of women will interpret what they see here to mean that there are many many more Huge men out there that they have missed. The odds are not as rare as studies seem to tell us.
     
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    The most significant change in my perception of hung men was learning they have problems about being big, almost as many as small penised men have with their size issues. I guess its like girls with big boobs or beautiful faces- I would think, 'how could she be unhappy or have problems with THAT?' But some do, and I have read often in the threads of the guys who actually have serious self-confidence issues because they have a big cock.
    The mind boggles, but learns. :smile:

     
  7. kc2007

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    Ha...I was eating dinner too. man if you would've told me 2 years ago I'd be eating dinner while posting on a big cock web site, i would think i turned gay or totally lost it...but anyway, thanks for pulling something out of your hat...lol. That's the unique response I was looking for.:smile:

    This site also is also misleading, while I do think cocks over 7 in long and/or 5 in thick are more common than people think, I still think the guys on this site in the minority. Just like if there was a site for tall people (is there?), you'd have a bunch of tall people posting pics. but it doesn't mean there are more tall people than we thought.
     
  8. B_Think_Kink

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    I expect everything to come in large sizes lol! It's true.. my standard is getting higher.. I always think... well I seen bigger on lpsg. I never thought I'd be posting pictures of myself, that shocks me still. I never thought I would tell all my friends about lpsg, nor did I think I would find people I knew on here, it was funny but shocking. I never thought that I would be able to dig deeper into who I was to find out about my own gender identity issues and be able to tell people who I really was. It's been great actually, I've learned lots, made many friends and enjoyed it the whole time.
     
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    I don't think that the member base on this website represents an average sample of the population as a whole. Obviously a site so named will attract people of particular "dimensions"

    I think is kind of what the OP is getting at. Does spending time on this site in this company skew your view or expectations of men as a whole?
     
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    well, it makes me stare at some of the pics and try to decide if they're photoshopped or not! LOL!!

    Seriously, it makes me tend to believe more of my callers when they tell me they have huge cocks, used to think all of them were bsing me. I'm sure some still are, but at least now I can look at the pics on here while I'm talking to them!
     
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    Makes me wish there were more of them out there
     
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    i'm more open to the fact that cock and balls are all different. they come in different sizes, shapes, and colors. while some are circumcised others are uncircumcised. some balls hang really low and others are firmer. and some men may have huge bushy pubes while others shave theirs off. i guess after being on lpsg for a while, i would much rather be surprised the first time i unzip a new guy's pants.
     
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    stacy, on the subject of balls...thats one thing I did discover once I joined this site. I never thought there was once of difference amongst guys, and when comparing parts I guess I always focused on the cock. No female I had ever been with had commented either. Not until I started taking pics of myself and getting comments about them did I realize mine were on the large side...
     
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    before joining lpsg i was pretty much in the same boat as you. i never knew there was such a big difference in balls... you know like how some hang lower and some are firmer and closer to the base. or also one of the balls could be slightly larger than the other. lpsg put all these thoughts into my head... but it's a good thing because now i have a better understanding of variety.
     
  15. Gisella

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    Well..the man who brought/inspired me to be here was a really laid back, bit shy, nothing extraordinary in his appearance, bellow average to US men heights, humble shoe size, small hands.. and any other silly clue people may have about cock sizes..translation: having NADA about him that gave away anything extraordinary..until after dating 3+ months later when he unzipped his pants and dropped his chocolate anaconda before my eyes. That moment in time was what changed my perception about penises.

    LPSG affected me at first by having many more members 9x6 looking big like my guy and even larger..still all of those men out of my reach, far away and very rare to find around. Yes I do know there are more big guys out there but not enough to be a common thing.

    My perception remains the same: a 9x6 cock remains a very very rare penis to find around me and awe me, still.
     
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    I don't think it's changed my perception all that much.... But it's definitely taught me how to scrutinize penis pics and judge their authenticity vs. size claim :p
     
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    It's given me a more broad perspective of the gay lifestyle and has shown me how grown men will go to any length to deceive
     
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    I visit lpsg for the women more than for the men. I don't meet lots of nrw women in my life, and when I do, I don't like them. I do like the women who are drawn to this site. In real life I have encountered very few average, and even fewer small penises. Most of my partners have had large penises. I have had significantly more penises over eight inches in length than average and small dicks combined. But, the bulk of my experience is with cocks between seven and eight inches in length. I don't go looking for them; I don't care about size very much. I just find them. I have a type, and that type, apparently, tends to be packing. I also was always interested in measuring. So, no, I don't hink this site has changed my perception of men or penises at all. Although. .. last week I caught myself checking bulges, something I never do.

    I think if anything ever changed the way I see men it was probably the years I spent as a phone sex op.
     
  19. Gisella

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    I would like to try that phone sex op. job..

    The problem is the vocabulary, I would need some manual, new wordings, slang to talk to them..

    Bronx..how's the snow over there? Not too bad right?
     
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    This kind of site changed my perspective on men for the worse. I hadn't realized how obsessed men were with size, and it made me sad; I hadn't realized how many straight men actually disliked women and that made me sad. I started developing a negative view of a gender that, until joining LPSG, I used to really enjoy. And not just enjoy sexually, I loved men.

    So I ended up taking a break and just hung out with the men in my life. I realized that I still love men and that what I see here just isn't true of every man. And certainly not true for the men in my life, and not even true for every man here.

    This site has not changed my opinion on penises. I am very pro-penis. Yay, penis! :laugh:
     
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