How has penis size impacted your life

[B_8strong8long]

This is for guys (str8, gay) or girls who want to talk about how their guy’s endowment has impacted their life. It's pretty much for anyone who wants to talk about the subject matter.

I'm interviewing for an article for an upcoming on-line men’s magazine on the topic of how penis size impacts a man's life. We're looking at this across racial lines, economic lines, and endowment lines. If anyone here is interested in being interviewed on the topic of how penis size has impacted their life please contact me at evander@strongandlong.com.

 

[yaoifun]

ditto, except for the sleeping part. Then again I get more sleep during the early morning. School is just to early, I almost always start to doze during my morning classes, but ALWAYS in my afternoon politics class. But size doesn't effect the boringness of school unfortunately. Only funny look if I wear tight things but I could really care less.

 

[B_8strong8long]

Hey guys,

How has it impacted you doesn't mean the impact had to be negative. But, I'm sure there has been some kind of impact. How do potential lovers react? What about other guys during growing up, gym class, etc? Personally, being large has had an impact on aspects of my life. I'd be interested to discuss with anyone who wants to talk about it.

 

[Pecker]

I don't get bruises when I use my dick for a ball bat but the pine tar makes my balls break out. :silly:

 

[BobLeeSwagger]

By far, the biggest impact it's had on my life is that I spend an inordinate amount of time on LPSG.

 

[chris88]

I wouldn't say it's really affected my life a lot. I've had maybe two semi-major negative experiences, the second of which made me deside I needed a support group. Little things like choosing family friendly clothes, but everyone has to choose clothes that suit them.

 

[SomeGuyOverThere]

Originally posted by aloofman@Mar 9 2005, 06:11 AM
By far, the biggest impact it's had on my life is that I spend an inordinate amount of time on LPSG.

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Same here, though it has got me quite nice comments, it hasnt really impacted my life to the extent of makeing me a millionare or breaking me

 

[robert617]

I would have to say yes this has impacted my life, but so has many other things. How much this has impacted my life is hard to determine and whether this was because I allowed undue influence on my decisions or I believed undue influence on others is almost impossible to tell. This is part of me, just part of the whole which is me and I've learned to live with things as they are (not much choice actually, is there?). I really don't know what life would be like in other circumstances. LOL Can't walk a mile in another man's shoes in this case.

 

[13788]

the_force: I think people that put too much emphasis on how a large dick impacts their life needs to re-evaluate their life. No offense. But that's just stupid to ask. It's like when someone tells me "oh you must be so proud, i would be"...well you have a warped sense of what pride is. Pride should be something taken when you've worked hard to achieve something...for the most part, you don't work to have a big dick.

 

[Pecker]

Originally posted by the_force@Mar 9 2005, 02:15 PM
I think people that put too much emphasis on how a large dick impacts their life needs to re-evaluate their life. No offense. But that's just stupid to ask. It's like when someone tells me "oh you must be so proud, i would be"...well you have a warped sense of what pride is. Pride should be something taken when you've worked hard to achieve something...for the most part, you don't work to have a big dick.

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However, tf, you're proving that for the most part you do work to be a big dick. :glare:

 

[brickbat]

The Force has the right perspective. However, what it has meant to me is having to wear jockey shorts since I was 14 to hold everything in place. Having my cousins tell me I would hurt a girl with that thing (something that stayed with me until I was married). Having gay men make passes at me because I guess of even a bulge in my pants. Having my wife tell me, "You have a great dick. Too bad we cant market it or make money off of it." Having to pleasurably forego the angst of what I read online from guys who hate their endowment and who are fighting to do something about it through jelging, penis stretchers, pumping, etc. Again, The Force put the correct face on this question. As a professional person, a bigger dick does nothing for me in my profession. Who I am is much more than my dick size.

 

[SomeGuyOverThere]

I agree with The Force, the penis doesnt make the man, and and the man doesnt make the penis either

We should have more pride in achievements than in our bodies....

But Im a realist, so hence the emphasis on "should".

 

[hung15us]

The size has made my sex life better than others have said theirs is. The bulge showing is very noticeable and some stare and others don't even notice. Sex is very hard as she has a hard time opening up to take the huge aroundness and depth. The guys freek out and just want to handle it only. They can't take it in the back side.

 

[B_8strong8long]

I think we are missing the point just a little bit.

Robert617 said “We cant walk in someone else’s shoes” and in that statement is the crux of this entire discussion.

The purpose of the article I’m working on and fueling this post, is to inform. Like it or not, other guys want to know what it’s like to walk in our shoes. Joe normal guys do, small guys do, and even other big guys do. If this wasn’t the case there wouldn’t be a LPSG. Realize, as humans we are all prisoners of our own experience, and it’s only through reaching out to others that we can gain a fuller understanding of life outside ourselves. Big guys want to know if other big guys experience what they experience. Small guys want to know what it’s like to be big, and so on.

Being bigger than average is not just the same as being average. Again, if that was the case why would there be support groups for it. Sexual technique has to be different, first impressions and reactions of partners is different, reactions of friends and other males in clothing-reduced situations is different. And every little thing that happens to us helps shape us. A penis is not the sum of a man, or vice versa. But it is at the center of human sexuality and certainly has influence on a great many things.

At the end of the day the article I’m working on is not about guys standing up and saying “look how great I am because of my dick.” It’s not about guys standing up and saying “please feel sorry for me because of my dick,” either. It’s simply “this is what it’s like for me to own this dick,” whatever the circumstance might be. One of the most interesting statements so far in my data collection (and there have been many) came from a woman who after reviewing some of the data said to me… “I’m glad I’m not a man.”

You may not realize how powerful that is, but women have historically felt society is somewhat male-centric or chauvinistic, they don’t generally feel sorry for men; also, lets face it, women give birth, they are not strangers to pain and adversity. So for a women to realize that some aspect of male-ness is actually pretty complex and in some cases hard to deal with, is a big thing.

That’s what this question of “how does penis size impact a man’s life” is about. It’s about being able to sit down for a few minutes and walk in someone else’s shoes. Nothing more, nothing less.

PS

Thanks to everyone who posted, and everyone who agreed to interview so far, I’m still taking interviews and everyone’s opinion/experience is valued.

PPS

In case I wasn't clear, I asked about how size influenced a guys life and of course everyone on this site is large and takes it from that angle, but I've asked the question all over and have a lot of participation from small and avg guys also.

 

[big_peter]

all it's done for me was get some wide-eyed looks (worth every second of reminiscing&#33

And some (short-term) gossip.

And some (what would have been) one-night stands that lasted for many months! ("I love your cock," she said).

 

[ceg1526]

Originally posted by big_peter@Mar 11 2005, 10:25 PM
all it's done for me was get some wide-eyed looks (worth every second of reminiscing&#33
And some (short-term) gossip.
And some (what would have been) one-night stands that lasted for many months! ("I love your cock," she said).

Well writ Peter.

Take care

Ceg

 

[13788]

Auncut10in: Hey guys, I haven't been on for a while, but I thought I would give you my two cents worth.
How could it not impoact my life. We live in a culture where sex is something that we obcess with. Of course it has had an impact. Just like a woman with big breasts has a differfent life than one with very small breasts. Just like someone who is much taller or shorter than usual, their lives are going to be different.
I realized very early in my life that this dick was going to impact my life. From the teasing I got in the High School locker room to the stares at my crotch while on the wrestling team. My dick size isn't the only thing about me, but it is one thing about me. It gives me a quiet confidence. I know that there are other guys that might be stronger or more looking, but deep down inside, I think yeah but they don't have this big dick.
I don't identify with guys that wish they could have more sex. I always get what I want, when I want it. And I know it is my dick size that makes it pretty effortlessly
Has it helped ime in my career? Probably not. I don't think I have gotten a job or been given any special favors because I had a big dick. But then again, that quiet confidence I know comes through, and I am sure that has helped me with dealing with people. And maybe all that teasing in High School has made me want to show those jerks that I was going to be more successful than they were.
Am I overthinking all this? Maybe so. I know it is not the most important thing about me, but it is something about me. So it depends on the situation on how big of impact it is. In job situations, probably not that big of deal. In social situations, it's probably a bigger deal. In sexual situations, it's a huge deal

 

[dcwrestlefan]

Originally posted by Auncut10in@Mar 12 2005, 09:56 PM
stares at my crotch while on the wrestling team.

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reason 302 why its the greatest sport on the planet.

 

[13788]

georrge965: realistically If you have have a big cock you have to admit it a plus in some ways atleast. You know you feel good about it. In someways it makes you feel superior though you get over that quick. But in general it just feels great when you pull it out or have someone else do it. And when the inevitable comment comes out you sure are proud of it.

But unless your getting rich of porno flicks I cant imagine much more than that

 

[Royal_T]

Not having the biggest on the site, and not even knowing I was above average until recently, I can say the only real effect its had is that sometimes theres mutual pain at first during sex, though the later parts more than make up for it.
But now that Im not in a realtionship anymore, there might be more fun to be had...